THE HUMAN mind is a crowded and noisy place

It is never empty or quiet. Not even when we are asleep and not engaged consciously in any form of activity. Even in that states the mind remains busy and a lot of activity goes on there. Even in our waking state our thoughts are not focused on any particular subject. Sometimes parallel streams of thought, quite at variance with each other, might be flowing side by side at various levels of consciousness. Often these thoughts lack discipline of consciousness and occur in a jumbled state.

Besides, all our thoughts are not good, healthy or noble. These are the thoughts, which generate conflicts. It is in the mind that both the constructive and destructive impulses germinate. What matters are that there are also spiritual thoughts? In other words, the pure and the impure exist in proximity which thoughts should control our mind. To put it differently we must learn to control our mind, our thoughts and focus our attention on the aspect of our being, the essence of our real Self. And that we can achieve through meditation.

Can you pause for some moments, stop stray thoughts from entering or staying in your mind? Can you suspend all thought and attain a state of thoughtlessness even for a few seconds?

If you can, then that small pause can bring redoubled energy to your mind and increase its capacity to think, concentrate and meditate. That, in fact, is the first step to bring it under control. Only then you can control your thoughts. To meditate, you have first to break the chain of useless, irrelevant, purposeless thoughts and substitute it with a new, purposeful spiritual chain of thoughts.

Meditation does not mean losing oneself in thoughts. On the contrary, meditation or samadhi means the attainment of the highest level of spiritual awareness. Meditation is not dhyana or concentration. It means samadhi, a state of mind which can be achieved through a process of exclusion and elimination of irrelevant thoughts.

When you sit to meditate, you begin by driving out thoughts, which are irrelevant till there are no thoughts other then the related to your subject of meditation, which is God or Brahman Himself.

In meditation you turn your thoughts within with a deep sense of devotion. This true self is the essence of your being, the Brahm within you. You concentrate your thoughts on him and by meditating on him you unite with Him and attain spiritual enlightenment. Thus, by uniting with the Brahm you attain the ultimate goal of self-realization. You become Buddha.

How can peace of mind be fetched?

This is a question that agitates most of us. Mere possession of wealth is not the answer. Rich men are in search of the same. In many cases more the money, greater is the problems. On the other hand in the God’s scheme of admiration a poor man who takes his shelter under a tree and who is blissfully unaware as to where his next meal will come from is happy. The only, way to enjoy this elusive commodity-peace, is to remain contented with what God has provided a person.

One should never feel jealous about his neighbor’s possessions and desire to acquire similar comforts at the cost of personal inconvenience. Taking loans should be avoided because, if they remain unpaid, the debtor will have to take rebirth to discharge them. When a man’s aim in life should be to secure liberation, to be born again will mean greater hardship.

Even in respect of his food requirements a person has to observe restrictions and take only what is absolutely needed and only when he is hungry, when the principle of simple living and high thinking is adopted, there will be no room for frustration.

Similar doubts relating to man’s day to day disciplines as well as his general conduct have been cleaned in the Mahabharata through the Yaksha episode. While the Pandavas were going through a period of severe discipline and searching probation, four among them disregarding the warning uttered by an incorporeal voice, entered a pool to quench their thirst, but fell down one by one unconscious. To bring them back to life, the eldest among them and the symbol of virtue Yudhistra, agreed to give replies to certain quarries. One among them related to the quest of mental peace. Courage is man’s salvation, while facing danger. Mind is faster than wind and a heart in agony is more blighted than a withered straw. What accompanies a soul in its final journey-is the person’s acts of piety (Dharma) Desirelessness is real wealth.

The Minds Response

In Psychology “motivation” or “Drive” are technical terms meaning behavioral adjustment, which satisfies bodily needs such as hunger or avoidance of pain. Even though home static balance requires drive, all motivational behavior is not directly related to tissue needs for example, sexual or social behaviors. Emotion also plays a major role in homeostasis. Since states of mind are often expressed through bodily organs controlled by the automatic nervous system such as the heart, lungs, and the sweet glands.

Emotion like motivation leads to pervasive and adaptive behavior, such as fleeing (or Attaching) in threatening situation.

That in short, is the neuro-physiological basis of behavior, which keeps the body in balance while dealing with stress. To answer what is stress, it must be reiterated that everything is. It is the very business of life because every stimulus brings and adaptive changes. However, the concept of stress has expended to include more than body processes. This is perhaps the most acceptable formulation. Some form of relationship between the environmental demands and the person’s ability to meet the demands “What are these demands like? Let us look at the external ones first.

Many would of course, implicates work as the Chief Culprit. However, work is a basic human condition and, for most people “No work” is more stressful. But something else involved with work and not work might produce stressful demands on the individual. For instance, an easy going “younger brother” may be promoted to a post where he needs to adopt a responsible and authoritative role. Not being equipped for this, he fails prey to extreme conflict and stress.

Apart from such definite situations background or environmental pressures may be produced by the general ambience of our past changing society. Jobs those demand constant movement tours and transfers, the facing of new situations, the adoption of different values.

The internal sources of demands are so multitudinous that a whole book on depth psychology could be written on them. Some of these are ambitious and expectations, some are involved with the private and the projected images of the staff or with the personality, inborn as well as acquired and all operate, both consciously and unconsciously.

A top ranking executive might hotly deny that he expected to be looked after like a child, but this might be suggested by his behavior at one level while on another, he might be seen to assume the Pucca- Burra Saheb stance. The resulting misunderstanding conflicts and frustration might produce an unbearably stressful situation even in an apparently harmless environment.

Good Mindedness: - We all need to cultivate a habit and practice for good mindedness. We can define a healthy mind, or an unhealthy mind in many ways. For example:-           

A Healthy Mind                                                        An Unhealthy Mind

1.  A healthy mind remember                                 An unhealthy mind remember

      Pleasure.                                                          Pain.

2.  A healthy mind rejoices                                     An unhealthy mind resent being

     At the opportunity to give.                                  Asked to give anything. In any

 Form, be it love, comfort or Physical  service.

3.  A healthy mind in thankful                               an unhealthy mind suffers pangs

     When asked to give.                                        Of conflict when asked to give.

And so on, we can continue the definition for healthy and an unhealthy mind in many different ways.

We almost all have never invested a week, a month or preferably many, many years in there own self. A person who is serious about his life wills always does this the way one spend time making oneself successful in a career. Success in life is not success in a carrier, is not success in examination, but it is success in cultivating the kind of ideal one has for one’s personality.

The qualities we would like to cultivate, the kind of reaction we would like to have to situations, what our actual convictions about life is? If we want any kind of happiness, any kind of success in life, we have to sit, spend our spare minutes thinking about what an ideal personality is like.

Now, in this highly physically oriented society, don’t be with the impression that the kind of personality is depending upon hairdo physical body characteristics or the clothes one wears. A doll can be made to look like anyone; it will still not become a human being, but will remain a doll. Adoring one like a doll does not make a personality, or does keeping one ugly contribute to personality.

We have guidelines from all the ancient masters, saints, great men, and great women of the world as to what an ideal human being is like and how to set that as one’s goal in this life. And this is to be done irrespective at any personal consequences.

Now a day we have confused the word good with the word pleasant. "It feels good” now a day’s means, “It feels pleasant,” But what feels pleasant at this moment is not necessarily good. Good mindedness, however, does mean pleasant mindedness, not just an outwardly pleasant smile. You can plaster that smile. A healthy mind is a pleasant mind a mind in which pleasant thoughts arises; cultivate the habit of thinking those pleasant thoughts.

People say well, how can I think all these thoughts when I am so miserable? I do want to think pleasant thoughts but there has been so much pain in my life you don’t understand?

Mind can be controlled through detachment

God has provided humanity all its wants and also shown the steps to be adopted by man to get rid of re-births. Many are eager to uphold these measures but some strange, unseen power prevents them from pursuing the same. It has no form and no one can identify it, yet under its influence men go about aimlessly. It makes them unsteady and lures them to commit sins.

A person may fame a rogue elephant, ride a tiger, walk with hands and head down and float on water and undertake similar feats, but cannot control this powerful obstacle-called the “Mind”. If that is kept checked there is no need for “Mantras” and other austerities.

The four fold qualities of the mind can help a man experience heaven even while living or push him into hell can be explained as such. It is “restless” and is seized by Satan; it is strong, turbulent, and obdurate. The mind destroys our peace, what we should aim at is to make it our slave instead of allowing it to treat us as its servants. God has prescribed two methods to bring the mind under our control- by constant practice and through detachment. Nothing will be impossible if a person has determination. People sleep on ice for months, some walk on one leg and other cross from the top of one flat to another on a rope at a precarious height- all with sustained efforts.

The mind can be kept under vigil by gradual and relentless practice. We can invoke divine mercy by such a practice. The mind can be trained be serene, tranquil and to maintain equanimity. While practice is a positive aspect of penance, detachment involves discarding desires. When our activities are dedicated to God and our attention is directed to God, the mind remains calm.

“I may be caused to be born as a worm, but let not my mind stray. Let it be always meditating on you,” prays a Saint, taking a pledge that he shall with divine assistance, bring this “Ghost under check.”

Remaining in a closed room in a bid to get insulated from the lures of the external world will not ensure peace of mind. To keep the mind under control, the best method is to seek the company of the virtuous as that alone will make a person’s realize his own stature compared with God. Who is described as an unseen shareholder of all that we possess.

It is in this context that an aspirant is advised to reflect for a moment where he came from and where he would go. What his relationship is with society and the Almighty.

God has divided the world into two distinctive sections the divine and the Diabolic. Those who choose to reside in the former region lead a well-defined life, marked by piety and humility. The others reach the hellish part, through the tree gates representing desire, anger, and conceit, but giving up the surging ego in them and surrendering themselves to God can transform even the latter category of people. Instead of remaining self-centered and boasting of their achievements, they should dedicate every act of theirs at the feet of God.

God has expanded the philosophy of life Himself. All the act of a man converges in Him and hence when he undertakes any job he should take care that it is not motivated by desires. He should remember that God alone is his permanent companion and if He is properly called. He shall make his presence felt and extend. His help and save him from any situation.

Among the most important divine injections is the duty to spare the money one possesses for God and His creations. God has also prescribed certain austerities to be performed which can help man in clearing his mind of the cobweb that have accumulated but they should never be performed for personal gains.

God expects a purified heart in man. Usually a devotee is advised not to seek any favor from the almighty. But as human beings, they cannot refrain from submitting their places. At times circumstances may compel them to resort to such requests. But even under those conditions, some refrain from asking any favor, Sudama, Lord Krishna’s classmate was one such exception. Both were disciplines of the same preceptor Sadipani.

Although a householder Sudama was contended with what God had given him but his wife compelled him to approach Lord Krishna for help because their children’s were starving. How he reluctantly under took the trip to meet the Lord. Sudama was elated at the opportunity he was given to worship Sri Krishna, thanks to the suggestion of his wife. In many cases woman tender correct and proper advice to their spouses. They act as the custodians of the culture of the nation. A Rakshasa’s wife delivered an extremely godly child (Prahlad), because while it was growing she had religious discipline taught to her.

When Sudama reached Lord Krishna’s mansion surprise was in store for him. A warm welcome was extended by the Lord who seized the tiny bundle of parched rice brought by the ill clad Sudama, who stood dazed on witnessing Sri Krishna’s bewitching form. Realizing the embarrassment of his friend. God caused his house turn into an enviable residence pouring wealth into it. Sudama on his return could not imagine that such a transformation could have taken place. He spent the rest of his life without getting intoxicated by the riches, continuing his detached life and displaying greater devotion to his benefactor.

Science explores the law of gravitation while religion unfolds the law of grace. One can grow horizontally with the help of scientific knowledge. Horizontal growth involves mare of everything that can provide comfort but not inner satisfaction. Religion invites us to grow vertically, exploring deeply love, devotion and contentment.

Both horizontal and vertical growths are necessary in our lives. Vertical growth in the spiritual dimension is essential for nourishing our soul.

Hinduism conceives of god as Brahma the creator, Vishnu the sustainer and Shiva the destroyer. All three elements co-exit. To create, knowledge is important. So Lord Brahma’s spouse is Saraswati. To sustain, wealth is necessary, so lord Vishnu’s spouse is Lakshmi. To destroy, the ingredient required is strength, so. Lord Shiva’s spouse is Shakti festival all three are invoked and worshipped in the form of Saraswati, knowledge, Lakshmi, wealth and Shakti, strength.

Every festival in India is celebrated with a divine purpose so as to receive the grace of the almighty. Navaratri means nine nights. According to a Hindu belief, the last thought one entertains before one’s death determines the next birth. How does one have a sacred thought before death? It is possible through self-discipline. We sleep every day. Sleep is similar to death except that we wake up. Sleep can thus be termed as mini-death. If we were to discipline our mind by invoking a sacred though prior to sleep every day, it will certainly help us to have a sacred thought during the time of death, Mahatma Gandhi said ‘hey ram’ before his death as he was self – disciplined.

Nava also means ‘new’. If we invoke the blessings of Saraswati, Lakshmi and Shakti before going to sleep every night, we will experience newness every night. Night or ratri also means darkness denotes ignorance. For this too, invoking the goddesses can prove fruitful. Through grace, our ratri or ignorance will vanish. Grace cannot be understood logically. It is a quantum leap in the field of consciousness. In physics, quantum leap is a great discovery. It involves electrons disappearing from one point and between them there is no time gap. Hence it is called quantum leap. Similarly, in the field of consciousness, when grace descends there will be a quantum leap in us.

During navaratri, three nights of worship are assigned to each of the three Devis. Nava or newness in the form of grace is invoked. The tenth day is vijayadashami, denoting victory – victory of higher consciousness through the blessing of the goddesses. The greatest victory is the dispelling of darkness or ignorance.     

Grace of the Devis always exists; it’s just that we should be worthy to receive them. The inner apparatus suitable to receive them is pure mind. Impure mind is like dirty muddy water, which cannot reflect the light of the moon. Moon exists but to reflect in water, the water has to be clean. This is called partibimba nyaya. Our mind has to be pure in order to receive grace.

Navaratri, therefore, is the celebration of removing ignorance. Our ignorance exists in the form of ego. E-G-O can mean edging god out. Hence we find Shakti dancing on Shiva’s chest. It may appear disrespectful but it is symbolic: an egoless lord Shiva allows his wife to dance over him. It means Devi’s grace can descend in any form… but one should be available to receive it. 

Was Einstein's Brain Different?

Of course it was - people's brains are as different as their faces. In his lifetime many wondered if there was anything especially different in Einstein's. He insisted that on his death his brain be made available for research. When Einstein died in 1955, pathologist Thomas Harvey quickly preserved the brain and made samples and sections. He reported that he could see nothing unusual. The variations were within the range of normal human variations. There the matter rested until 1999. Inspecting samples that Harvey had carefully preserved, Sandra F. Witelson and colleagues discovered that Einstein's brain lacked a particular small wrinkle (the parietal operculum) that most people have. Perhaps in compensation, other regions on each side were a bit enlarged - the inferior parietal lobes. These regions are known to have something to do with visual imagery and mathematical thinking. Thus Einstein was apparently better equipped than most people for a certain type of thinking. Yet others of his day were probably at least as well equipped - Henri Poincaré and David Hilbert, for example, were formidable visual and mathematical thinkers, both were on the trail of relativity, yet Einstein got far ahead of them. What he did with his brain depended on the nurturing of family and friends, a solid German and Swiss education, and his own bold personality.

Thinking and IQ are not the same

Every Human being who is really alive is constantly broadcasting thoughts, feelings and vibrations; even if one sits in silence. The very presence of a person is communicative and radiates whatever is surrounding him. Every person carries his atmosphere wherever one goes or lives.

You go to a person and sit in his presence and suddenly you feel very happy and cheerful. Quite the contrary may happen in the presence of another person: you may become sad or depressed or feel that your energy has been sucked. And with another type of person, you may not feel anything, just deadness.

Because Around every person there is a field of emotional energy. Some people always look radiant, and everything in their Life flourishes and grows. They have a positive energy field around them. Some people, on the other hand, always have a morose or tense air about them, and everything in their life seems to fade and die. They have a negative energy field around them. A positive field is created by positive emotions and a negative field draws sustenance from negative emotions.

Energy causes all beings to act in this world. The higher the level of energy, the greater would be their accomplishments. When we are tired, our energy levels plummets and we do not feel like doing anything. When the field around is negative with hurt, anger, possessiveness, greed, jealousy, fear and abhorrence, we are less able to act with speed and efficiency. These emotions suck the energy and life-force out of us.

Tan your body before he or she is able to even walk. How? By inducting a concerted, playful interest in specifics. Parents in the US and Japan are just about doing it this way. Instead of toy guns, give him a home computer instead of dolls, give him a violin, instead of teaching Baba Black sheep, teach him applied mechanics, instead of teaching him Ding Dong Bell, teach him medical anatomy.

Though this can be harmful in the long run parents are giving it a try. Any way! It has gone to such an extreme that California obstetrician Dr. F Rene Van de Carr teaches mothers how to indoctrinate the fetus inside their wombs to take an interest in Mathematics, Arts, Physics, Chemistry, Computer studies, Sports and even Economic. (As said in Mahabharata that Abhimanyu  learned the Chakarayuoh in the womb of his mother). His clientele? Anxious success oriented women, His business? Booming, but then anything sells in California.

An industry has sprung up around these findings. And now there are theorists out to teach month old infants the intricacies of relation algebra or differential calculus or to Bach’s Symphonies or competing in various competitions. Also around is a Prenatal University that teaches expectant mothers how to tutor their fatsoes in wombs on a select carrier in life. (As in Mahabharata  the Abhymanyu learnt the Chakrayuha. And of course, the sudden craze for inspired scientific thinking called “Lateral Thinking” by the modern father of Thinking Edward de Bona (Edward Francis Charles Pueblos de Bona). Who are a medical doctor and a Rhodes Scholar from oxford has had faculty appointments in many Universities and has written 27 books relating to thinking.

Dr. Bona is running the largest program in the world for the direct teaching of thinking in schools in several countries through the Cognitive Research Trust, Cambridge of which he is the founder. He is of the view, that there is a big need for a change in the educational systems which is mainly description based and which does not help in being creative or in thinking to meet the various activities in life.

Can we, with dominant part of the brain, develop our other part? In 90 % cases we are left sides. Developing the right side is much like listening to your conscience- it makes value judgments, is emotional, subtle, silent, intuitive, graphic, and inspirational.

·         Meditation is one way out.

·         Developing an interest in gut, feeling is another.

·         Paying more attention to dreams is third, and

·         Unorthodox thinking is a possible fourth

For those interested, try to lay your hands on “Drawing on the right side of the brain” by Betty Edwards, “A guide to whole-brained Investing” by Sally Springer, “The right Brain Experience” by Marilee Zdanels, “Integration left and right brain management skills” by Weston Agor.

On the related platform is the theory that the brain of infants is the cleanest, clearest, like a fresh slate, and if it is filled with “relevant matter” from the very beginning the kid can get a better start in life. So instead of giving him cricket bats, give him a commodore computer for her, substitute trigonometry for toys.

The theory is that both halves of the brain become attuned to either computers, or calculus or music or painting, or gymnastics or business oriented games. Thus when the kid grows up and is faced with tough problems the right side of the brain will through up subtle hints of solution that could be of help to him/her.

This short of thinking has prodded California Scientists Dr.Rene Van Carr to find the world’s first “Parental University” in Los Angeles. Here expectant mothers are taught how to mould the brain of their young still in the womb.

(Thinking and IQ are not the same. IQ is like the potential of a car and thinking like the driving skill. Many High IQ people are actually bad thinkers and thinking a lot does not necessarily make one better as thinking).

His (Dr. Rene) program began in 1979 and more than 250 “Graduates” every year expectant mothers are analyzed for their and their husband’s skills, aptitudes, diets and so on and a rough parameter of the body’s skills are arrived at. These are supposed to be molded by making the mother take an extra interest in the particular subjects, by putting her on specialized diet, by making her do specialized tasks, and so on. The others are ecstatic with expectation and the doc gets his dough.

A more serious and scientific thinker in Edward Bona he teaches thinking specifically creative thinking, and is Godfather of the brain at IBM. He has been appointed the world’s first minister of human intelligence. The U.S. Department of Defense- (NASA). He is also founder-President of SITO (Supranational Independent Thinking Organization) a sort of Intellectual Red Cross. Dr. Bonn’s theories- randomized, lateral, unorthodox intuition based graphic thinking – is closer the right side than any other. He thinks businessmen around the world are the real creative thinkers, for if they didn’t they would lose out a market.

World will be of NO MAN.-3

Women are the power and very foundation of our existence in the world, when women lose touch with their real selves, there is disharmony. So, it is crucial for women everywhere to make the effort to rediscover their fundamental nature. The infinite potential inherent in men and women is the same. If women really want to, they can somehow acquit the strength to break free of the ‘rules’ and conditioning that society has imposed on them. The greatest strength of women lies in their innate motherhood, in their creative, life-giving power. And this power can help women to bring about far more significant changes in society than men could ever hope to accomplish. 

The power of a woman’s innate motherhood helps her find a deep sense of peace and harmony within herself. This enables her to reflect and react at the same time whereas a man tends to reflect less and react more. A woman can listen to the sorrows of other people and respond with compassion; but still, when faced with a challenge, she can rise to the occasion.

In today’s world, everything is being made unnatural. In this environment, woman should take extra care that her qualities of motherhood- her essential nature as a women – don’t get either contaminated or distorted. Whether you are a woman or a man, your real human nature will be revealed only when the feminine and masculine qualities within you are balanced.

Through their will power and spiritual practices, women should overcome their weaknesses. But in the process of striving to regain their rightful position in society, women should not lose their essential nature. For, it is impossible to attain real freedom by imitating men. If women themselves turn their backs on the feminine principle, this will culminate in the utter failure of women and society. If women reject their feminine qualities and cultivate only masculine qualities, the imbalance in the world will only become greater. The real need is for women to contribute all they can to society by developing their universal motherhood, as well as their ‘masculine’ qualities.

A woman is the creator of the human race. She is the first guru, the first guide and mentor of humanity. Think of the tremendous forces, both positive and negative, that one human being can unleash on the world. The responsibility of a mother, when it comes to influencing and inspiring her children, cannot be underestimated. Wherever you see happy, peaceful individuals; wherever you see children endowed with noble qualities and good dispositions; wherever you see men who have immense strength when faced with failure and adverse situations; wherever you see people who possess a great measure of understanding, sympathy, love, and compassion towards the suffering, and who give of themselves to others- you will usually find a great mother who has inspired them to become what they are.

Mothers sow the seeds of love, universal kinship, and patience in the minds of human beings. There is a special bond between a mother and child. The heart of her child; she pours her love into the child, teaches positive lessons, and helps correct the child’s mistake.

A child’s mind is like a freshly cemented floor. The impressions made in the fresh cement will remain there. The good thoughts and positive values we cultivate in our children will stay with them forever. The forthcoming age should be dedicated to awakening universal motherhood. The future of humanity lies in street Shakti. Women everywhere have to actualize the qualities of motherhood within themselves. In this way, we can realize our dream of global peace and harmony, and to further progress in life.

World will be of NO MAN.-2

Woman’s primary need is “Security”, secondary is “Respect”, they often misinterpret meaning of word security.  According to them money is sign of security; they often push back their emotional need. As we all know money attracts women, in fact we say “Woman run after money”, but the question is why they do so?

Woman has the desire/need to maintain themselves, they are look conscious, status conscious, because their outlook appeal men towards them, which fulfilled their basic psychological need, and this materialistic cycle needs money, here raise need of money for woman; secondly they are financially dependent on their partner (most of women  were earlier even today), because nature has created them like this “to rely on” , that makes money  basic source of security, those who understand themselves & their real urge they doesn’t chase it, we had come across such examples. There are women who choose to live with average earning man whom they love & they live happily, for them emotional needs to be fulfilled first, and there are women who are not happy being a wife of billionaire, what makes them to chase someone else, if money is everything for woman.

When women are beautiful, then they have queued of men chasing them, and if they are not??

Women becomes symbol or other name of “beauty”, what is their beauty

Long hairs

Fair complexion           

Sharp features

Expressive eyes

Sweet voice

Good outline

How she presents/behaves (new emerge)

Is that all about woman, why they have been rated on parameter of their looks, think on this, if today I am beautiful what is my contribution, and if not then, what is my fault, I have not created myself, what kind of complexion, eyes, physics I’ll be having will totally depend on the combination of multiple genes and amount of mutation takes place if so, and that becomes our value stage for world, and world makes us to face them on their parameters.

                                                   

Chap on matrimony sites, first requirement for ideal partner, she should be good looking, is only good looking girls has right of marriage, if it so? Then god is doing mistake by creating average looking gals.

She should be of good character, what are the measures to measure her character and why they should do?

When they have been differentiating on some materialistic parameters then they become materialistic, and then phrase “Women run after the money” exists.

When we talk about woman we can’t leave discussing role of men in her life, she hold man within her "WO"MAN", man is an integral part of woman’s life even her identities are dependable on them, first; father’s name is required later husband’s name. Man is an undetectable part of her life whether they become bitter half or better half it varies from story to other.

Woman and man’s relationship has various dynamics.

Men are known to run after “BEAUTY”, for them women are more like a project (desire)-- learn (know her), get into (have her), get familiar (entertain himself), and then move to next project.

Women need ample/own time to rely on any man who enters in her life, to develop trust level, to feel warmth, which lead into bond/relation, it is bit slow process in case of woman; but for man, it is opposite-- they attract very fast, rush to know her, to make relationship with her, without understanding the profile/need of her. When they don’t get desired response as per their expectations, they lose charm and move towards other, and that is the time, when woman overpass period of trust, when she want to relying on him, trusting him, by the time he is already mentally moved away from her, and the story ends before it starts.

I couldn’t understand, why man has high ego, and they live with it all the time, ego for what, being a man, but then they have to be either gender.

Three supreme powers, BRAHMA DEV, VISHNU DEV and LORD SHIVA, who are responsible for this world’s management for three different profile, their better halves has the equal supportive role in this management, and we all worship them.

BRAHMA DEV, known to write our fate, MA SARASWATI, blessed us with the power of knowledge (co line part)

VISHNU DEV, responsible for our nurture, MA LAXMI, blessed us with power of money (dependable profile)

LORD SHIVA, responsible for to put an end, MA PARWATI, play or develop roles to make this happened. (Lead each other)

Then why this world is “men oriented” world, why all the desires and command is in men’s hand, why here is not equal, supportive, constructive role for both of them. Why Indian woman has to call her hubby “Aap” and he calls her “Tum or Tu”.

When this woman is “SHIV KI SHAKTI”, why she is so helpless today? Aren’t we spoiling the nature’s balance?

World will be of NO MAN.-1

Woman what we shall say about her, beautiful creation of God, life itself is nothing without a woman.

Her life is divided in parts/stages; nothing is complete for her.

Her birth is sign of burden in under developed eastern regions, in Rajasthan people literally kill baby girl.

In her teenage/early youth, she is more often taken as “colorful butterfly”, everyone get attracts towards her colors, wants to hold her as they can, don’t realize, her colors will wipe away with that harsh touch.

If she does not want to involve with someone, youth says “she doesn’t have taste, she is nuts” n if she involves, parents/brother says, “don’t be characterless”, if she leaves her love or forced to leave for better match, “she is bitch”, and if boy leaves her for his career, “it is required to do so”. Once they are settled in their career, then they lookout to new colorful and beautiful butterfly for them, to satisfy their ego, and flaunty show to others “see I own this beautiful lady”.

If she does not want to marry or things don’t work for her, she becomes sign of barrier/hurdle for her own family, and if she marries with wrong person, she has been forced to live miserable life.

Dowry is the price which her family pays to relief from her and other takes as privilege to accept her for life time.

For his hubby, his first priority is his family, and she is asked to leave parents/relatives for one person who takes her wherever he wants, after all he has all rights on her.

She gives birth to new lives, at the cost of her health, her life; and after that; her hubby says, “You have lost your figure!! Workout”, and if she does not want to go for family “she is cruel; she has no heart”.

If she sacrifices her career for better upbringing of kids, kids says “mom u don’t understand me, as u sits at home and world has changed” if she carries her career, kids says “her mom doesn't love them n have no time for them”, and they hate her; in the whole life she becomes cook and house keeper for kids/hubby, she is the one who takes care of them and still they have their own “priories and life" - .

She takes kids as sign of strong bond with hubby, and hubby says “she doesn’t have time for him, nor she is attracted anymore”, let search other “butterfly for leisure”.

If she is non fertile she is called “banjh”, but what if man is “non fertile” do we have any word for him in our “dictionary”, she has been expected to take care of his dignity/respect in social, If she could not deliver “son”, man runs after other woman for his “generation”.

At last some other butterfly “daughter in law”, comes to replace her in her home and she battle for her existence; --- “home” for which she paid price as a wife, daughter in law even as mom for whole life; at the end she realizes this fact; "she has no home", nor as daughter, sister, wife, mom, daughter in law.

The story ends, and no one knows what was going in this soul, which unfortunately does have an “heart”, and man says “it is difficult to understand woman”, how they will, have they “thought of her” or put up “effort and time” to understand her, they have always taken her as “granted” in all relations, as a brother, father, husband, son, now new emerge as “boss” even in her corporate life as well..

She has three births in one life or may be more; one is “biological”, second when she “marries”, third when she passes from “creation process”. It’s time to think- think – If woman is WO!!! MAN – then world will be of NO MAN.

(to be Contd....)

PITUITARY

(Pituitary, The master glands) – The overseer of the endocrine system is the pituitary a small reddish gray organ that is attached to the brain by a slender stalk and that lies in a bonny pocket just behind and above the nose.

The pituitary is not impressive to look at. It is only the size of a pee, and its weight is mere 0.6 GM. But even though the pituitary is small, its responsibility is immense. It has been called the master gland, the conductor of the endocrine orchestra. Some jobs the pituitary delegates to other endocrine glands. For example the pituitary launches a hormonal message into the blood stream ordering the thyroid gland to produce and release three other hormones. These control metabolism, body heat and bone maintenance. The pituitary gland likewise commands the sex glands to produce the hormones that will bring about the physical changes of puberty. The master gland also instructs the adrenals to manufacture hormones that maintain blood pressure and salt balance in the body.

At times, though, the pituitary cares for matters directly, sending out hormonal messages that influence the growth of our bones and muscles. Its hormones even control how tall we will be.

The pituitary further plays a big role in delivering babies. To assist a woman in labor, the pituitary sends out OXYTOCIN a hormone that stimulates contractions of the womb. When the baby’s head reaches the birth canal, the brain sends a message to the pituitary requesting an extra Supply of oxytocin to help with the final phase of delivery. All along hormones from the pituitary have been stimulating the production of milk on the mother’s breasts, when baby is born, mother is equipped to feed it.

While the pituitary is the overseer of other glands, it has its own overseer- the HYPOTHALAMUS. This is a cluster of nerve cells no larger than the tip of our thumb. It is located at the base of the brain and is connected to the pituitary. Its job is not only to supervise the work of the endocrine system but also to co-ordinate the work of the automatic nervous system.

Part of its work is to test the makeup and temperature of the blood. More blood gushes through the hypothalamus than any other part of the brain. If the blood is too cool, the hypothalamus sends instructions (via the pituitary and thyroid) for more THYROXINE, a hormone that boosts metabolism to produce heat to warm the blood.

Since the hypothalamus does its work automatically. We are usually unaware of its labors; yet, it has a day to day effect on our lives. Are we hungry? Our hypothalamus has detected too little glucose in our blood, it is telling us to eat. Are we thirsty? Our hypothalamus has decided that the salt level in our blood is a little too high. “Drink some water” it tells us.

The hypothalamus also monitors levels of calcium in the blood, without calcium our brain, muscles, and nerves would not work properly. When the level of blood calcium is too low, the hypothalamus withdrawing calcium from the bones, much as draw money from a bank. How is the calcium withdrawal made?

The hypothalamus sends a hormonal message to the pituitary. The pituitary launches its own command to the PARATHYROIDS located in the neck. The Parathyroid, in turn, secretes parathormone, which goes to the bones to request calcium for the blood stream. Once the hypothalamus sees that the calcium level is correct, it cancels orders for further withdrawals.

But what is the hypothalamus learns that there is too much calcium in blood? Once again messengers are sent to the “bone bank” but instead of making a withdrawal, they make a deposit. This is the procedure. The hypothalamus sends a message to its Chief Executive, (THE PITUITARY). The pituitary now issues a command to the thyroid. The thyroid, intern, sends out the hormone Calcitonin, which acts to transfer, excess calcium from the blood to the bones.

What a master piece of organization;

The hypothalamus controls the pituitary.

The pituitary directs the glands. And

The glands regulate the body.

And all of this is done by more than 30 different kinds of hormones that flow silently through our body to care for our most basic physical needs. Yet despite the complexity of all this, the endocrine system operates with stunning efficiency.    

THALAMUS (The Sixth Sense)

As is well known, many animals can sense impending danger or other happenings, can react to these and other happenings beyond the reach of sight, hearing or smell, and can most probably register an awareness of electromagnetism in the atmosphere, be it in the form of radio waves. Infrared waves, radiation or sunspot activity. Most people already accept the fact that the five senses of ancient tradition just do not represent all our known faculties. Women in particular are perceptive and intuitive to a degree not explained by any of the conventional sense. Among God’s creations, the human being alone has the privilege of being endowed with six faculties, one among them being the power of discrimination. He can study the conditions and act W/O committing a mistake. Hence he should conduct himself in much a manner as to leave on indelible mark. Man has achieved fame in different fields like music engineering, religious, literature and oratory. A rare instance of extending compassion, even to the lowest of living beings. The Plant’s which has just one sense that stands green in the memory of people. 

We all have one, although none of us has ever seen it. It is no bigger than our little finger, and until recently was not thought to be very interesting or important, But now we know it may well be by far the most important single organ of our entire bodies.

It is called the THALAMUS, and is a little pinkish, rod-shaped. Cluster of Nerves and cells, lying at the bottom center of the brain. Hidden out of sight below the enveloping folds of the Cerebrum or ‘Gray matter’. It belongs in fact to the oldest part of the brain and is now thought to be a kind ‘inner Brain’ of the highest importance to every human life. Some Scientist even-calls it the old Brain or reptile Brain.

We are all endowed, as it were, with two separate brains. The large main one, called the Cerebrum or cortex does all the day-to-day work required of it. Through its ten billion plus nerve cells, electromagnetic impulses ceaselessly flow, representing our myriad thoughts, ideas, impressions and all the constant signals of our everyday senses.

How does the Thalamus function? The Thalamus is known to receive all incoming sensations and to judge and co-ordinate them. When the Thalamus is affected, it sparks off other reactions in the main cortex (which is probably controls) and so a very special kind of ‘Brain is washing’ take place and the mind of most of us are ‘cleansed of Fogs, fevers, delusions and depressions, fears and frustrations.

Yet the Thalamus cannot be made to feel, nor can it be checked when it does feel.

                     

One of the simplest illustrations of the power, of the, Thalamus. Now being uncovered is the far merely inexplicable but quite common sense of the presence of solid objects, We are all aware of solid objects like walls, curves and so on without actual sight or physical contact, and often we involuntarily take avoiding action as we approach them. This subtle mysterious sense, certainly a Sixth Sense. Similarly, the Thalamus is most likely responsible for the way sleep-walkers avoid mishap whilst moving about in their trances also the strange way in which some people can pickup ultrasonic sound through the surface of their stain, not through their ears.

Within the mysterious recesses of the Thalamus must lay the key to such human problems as clairvoyance telepathy and extra-sensory-perception, each of which is now readily accepted as a scientific certainly.

In some of the experiments, at the Rockefeller Institute, Chosen people, who claimed to have these or similar powers, were tested under rigorous control, and it was found that, many of them could in fact, foretell almost to a second. When a telephone bell would ring or door opens, or someone say something, even what they were about to say.

Such Super-perception is a type of sixth sense says psychoanalyst Dr. Eric Berna.

The next problem is to discover how we can put the powers of the Thalamus to work to release for our own use the far-reaching and amazing new dimensions of the human mind to which it seems to offer the key.

The Human brain consists basically of three parts

The cerebrum, cerebellum and medulla obtangata.

The cerebrum is the most predominant and consists of two hemispheres, the right, and the left. These two hemispheres are joined at the base by a strip of tissue called the corpus callous. It is well known that the two hemispheres of the cerebrum control respond to external stimuli from opposite sides of the body. For example if we touch a hot object with our right hand, the sensory nerve fibers in the skin start sending a series of Electro chemical pulses through the nerves. These travelling at about 100 ft/sec reach the spinal cord with in Milliseconds. Crossing over to the left side of the spinal cord, they reach the left side of the brain, where the signals are processed giving us a sensation of heat.

If the brain decided the object is hot enough to burn the skin it sends out signals through the nerves to the right hand muscles to contract and withdraw the hand. Similarly, any sensation from the left half of the body is conveyed to the right half of the brain. For some unknown reason which defies, any explanation each half of the body is connected to the opposite half of the brain.

Neurologists have also found that the two cerebral hemispheres play different roles and have special abilities and functions. For instance, language and logical functions like mathematics and sequential tasks are handed by the left cerebral hemisphere. On the other hand, visual and spatial configurations geometric patterns abstract thought and creatively are controlled by the right hemisphere of the brain, while solving a geometrical problem we use the right.

Although each half of the brain controls specific activities any information received by one hemisphere is instantly transferable, also the other hemisphere through the corpus callous a bundle of nerve tissue containing about 200 million nerves cells. The corpuses callous thus co- ordinate the functions of the two hemispheres as a single whole. And it is this bundle of tissue; recent research suggests that lead to handedness in humans.

In two things humans are vastly different to animals. Human use language for communication and have used tools. The use of tools requires fine sequential movement of limbs, hands, and fingers. The left hemisphere best controls this task and so is language ability. Because of this it has been suggested that our right-handedness was a process of evaluation, it was only by chance that the left hemisphere of the brain specialized in language developed and so language was created a means of communication. As a corollary the left hemispheres took over control of the right side of our body and made us right handed.

Our right-handedness therefore seems to be due to our “split brains.” In the case of the left-handers, the exact role of the increased corpus callus and its effects on handedness are not clear. As research intensifies neurologists are still groping for a cause.

Genetic engineering

(Already with us in is primary phase with test tube babies) can alter chromosomal properties to include favorable qualities and exclude other. Thus, can the further have made-to-order babies with analytical/ poetic/ linguistic/ mathematical minds? Therefore like present-day classes and castes, will the future be segregated by kind’s intelligence? Worth thinking about.

A.   One answer is diet. According to Dr. Richard Wartman of the MIT, three compounds may contain the answer.

1.    One is tryptophan, which becomes cerotonin, which regulates appetite and motor impulses.

2.    The second is chorine, who becomes Nor-epinephrine that regulates memory, buried skills sudden flashes of intuition etc.

3.    The third is tyrosine, which becomes Nor-epinephrine that regulates blood pressure, depression, aggression, motivation, and inspiration.

B.   Another answer is genetics. Called “Eugenics” a genius mother and a genius father will probably produce a genius child. This is not as simple as that, obviously. More of trial and error, with test-tube babies and artificial insemination one can expect tailor-made chromosomes to be merged to produce the super-intelligent babies, or super sportsmen, or even super-smart businessmen. At present, it is like the Einstein actress error. A lovely actress invited Einstein to inseminate her so that the offspring could have Einstein’s brain and the actress’s look, ‘said Einstein, “Fine, and Ma’am. But I dread to think what should happen if the child had instead my look and your brain”.

C.   A third way out is transplants. But it is still a tricky area. The supposition is if a Keralite’s brain tissue were transplanted into a Bengali’s brain, would he speak Malyalam?

It has been found that brain transplants (grafts of tissues) are accepted by, other brains, remarkably well, at least in mice & dogs. Other body organs are fussier. The brain does not bother. As to whether it will pick up memories, attitudes, skills, from the donor brain is tough to answer. Only an actual experiment can tell. If it does, there may be a sudden clamor for brains of dying geniuses to be transplanted on to healthy humans.

D.   The fourth way is to begin early. Tan your body before he or she is able to even walk. How? By inducting a concerted, playful interest in specifics. Parents in the US and Japan are just about doing it this way. Instead of toy guns, give him a home computer instead of dolls, give him a violin, instead of teaching Baba Black sheep, teach him applied mechanics, instead of teaching him Ding Dong Bell, teach him medical anatomy.

Though this can be harmful in the long run parents are giving it a try. Any way! It has gone to such an extreme that California obstetrician Dr. F Rene Van de Carr teaches mothers how to indoctrinate the fetus inside their wombs to take an interest in Mathematics, Arts, Physics, Chemistry, Computer studies, Sports and even Economic. (As said in Mahabharata that Abhimanyu learned the Chakarayuoh in the womb of his mother). His clientele? Anxious success oriented women, His business? Booming, but then anything sells in California.

The best answer of all is motivation. Almost 99% of the genius on earth was borne ordinary humans most in fact were malnourished persecuted, ridiculed spat at, imprisoned, and hounded. Yet, the most beautiful works of art, music, painting, and even scientific achievement has come from the so-called wretched of the earth. No ivory tower genius is as famous, anyway.

But the fact remains that the brain thrives under motivation and pressure. And, self-motivation seems to be the only shortcut to genius and to greater achievements. Can this be emulated- by transplants or artificial means, by computer?

Neurologists and computer scientists are now working on hypothesis that a machine can be built to simulate the human brain. But is that feasible even by one millionth of the percent?

The human being today or tomorrow is going to defy all known laws of science, nature, and life and come up with endurance capacities that seems baffling and impossible.

Consider Helen Keller. Blind deaf and dumb from an early age, she developed her sense of smell to such an extent that she could identify personal friends from their odorous.

Take Russian Lieutenant I M Chisove. Who fell from a height of 21,980 feet from a damaged plane on a steep side of a snow-covered mountain, slid to the bottom, broke his pelvis, but survived in otherwise good health.

Mark Twain Borne in 1835 when Haley’s comet appeared. He died in 1910. Nobody knows how, or why, yet that such a prediction should come true, but it did and twain died a natural death.

Man’s present day limits are weird enough; there is no need to look to the future at least in this respect, when some super-human is with us today.