World will be of NO MAN.-1

Woman what we shall say about her, beautiful creation of God, life itself is nothing without a woman.

Her life is divided in parts/stages; nothing is complete for her.

Her birth is sign of burden in under developed eastern regions, in Rajasthan people literally kill baby girl.

In her teenage/early youth, she is more often taken as “colorful butterfly”, everyone get attracts towards her colors, wants to hold her as they can, don’t realize, her colors will wipe away with that harsh touch.

If she does not want to involve with someone, youth says “she doesn’t have taste, she is nuts” n if she involves, parents/brother says, “don’t be characterless”, if she leaves her love or forced to leave for better match, “she is bitch”, and if boy leaves her for his career, “it is required to do so”. Once they are settled in their career, then they lookout to new colorful and beautiful butterfly for them, to satisfy their ego, and flaunty show to others “see I own this beautiful lady”.

If she does not want to marry or things don’t work for her, she becomes sign of barrier/hurdle for her own family, and if she marries with wrong person, she has been forced to live miserable life.

Dowry is the price which her family pays to relief from her and other takes as privilege to accept her for life time.

For his hubby, his first priority is his family, and she is asked to leave parents/relatives for one person who takes her wherever he wants, after all he has all rights on her.

She gives birth to new lives, at the cost of her health, her life; and after that; her hubby says, “You have lost your figure!! Workout”, and if she does not want to go for family “she is cruel; she has no heart”.

If she sacrifices her career for better upbringing of kids, kids says “mom u don’t understand me, as u sits at home and world has changed” if she carries her career, kids says “her mom doesn't love them n have no time for them”, and they hate her; in the whole life she becomes cook and house keeper for kids/hubby, she is the one who takes care of them and still they have their own “priories and life" - .

She takes kids as sign of strong bond with hubby, and hubby says “she doesn’t have time for him, nor she is attracted anymore”, let search other “butterfly for leisure”.

If she is non fertile she is called “banjh”, but what if man is “non fertile” do we have any word for him in our “dictionary”, she has been expected to take care of his dignity/respect in social, If she could not deliver “son”, man runs after other woman for his “generation”.

At last some other butterfly “daughter in law”, comes to replace her in her home and she battle for her existence; --- “home” for which she paid price as a wife, daughter in law even as mom for whole life; at the end she realizes this fact; "she has no home", nor as daughter, sister, wife, mom, daughter in law.

The story ends, and no one knows what was going in this soul, which unfortunately does have an “heart”, and man says “it is difficult to understand woman”, how they will, have they “thought of her” or put up “effort and time” to understand her, they have always taken her as “granted” in all relations, as a brother, father, husband, son, now new emerge as “boss” even in her corporate life as well..

She has three births in one life or may be more; one is “biological”, second when she “marries”, third when she passes from “creation process”. It’s time to think- think – If woman is WO!!! MAN – then world will be of NO MAN.

(to be Contd....)