Your
heart is a precious gift. Your body is a temple. Be selective. Respect it and
be respected. Love yourself and be loved. If you don’t respect and love
yourself first, building a healthy relationship with another is like building a
house with no foundation — eventually the cracks and lack of a strong base will
eventually cause it to crumble. Know your value and don’t accept being treated
in a way less than you deserve. Don’t start going out there with unrealistic
expectations, demands and a sense of entitlement. You deserve to be treated the
way you treat others, and vice versa. The minute you negotiate yourself worth
and accept less, you say to the universe that you don’t deserve any better, and
the vicious cycle/pattern begins. Change for yourself and of course, friends
and partners are great mirror reflections that help you grow. But don’t change
out of the wrong reasons to appease someone or in hopes that they will like you
more. If they judge you for who you are now, they aren’t your fit.
“But
the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one
you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love you, you love,
well, that’s just fabulous.”
We must just be ourselves with honesty, and how we were created to be. Love is the greatest asset, and includes kindness within it.
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