Sexual enjoyment
philosophy
Sexual
enjoyment philosophy is quite controversial in this regard. Yet it has been
proven repeatedly by many sex therapists and researchers. The philosophy is
this by learning to focus on your own sensations and enjoyments; you will
actually become more sensitive to your partner’s feeling and needs. Discovering
what you enjoy can build your confidence, make it easier to ask for what you
want, and bring a new sense of freedom in bed.
Total
Sex knowledge to bring complete enlightenment to everyone, simply because it is
the essence of our sacred Shashtras, Puranas, Vedas, epics and at last to
include my Experience.
And
as these secrets of nature are unrevealed before our eyes, we come to
understand ourselves more fully and appreciate the benefits of living in
harmony with the laws of nature. These are the laws that guide the sun and the
stars, and cause the plants to grow and the flowers to bloom. This is the power
we see at work within the human mind and the body, the power of the life
itself. Such a study not only helps us to closer to the great mind that rules
the mighty Universe all around us.
That
is why many Saints written “सम्भोग से मोक्ष तक” The basic mindfulness techniques and
ethical teachings were already in place at early time. What was added at this
point was the incorporation of a number of yogic techniques, specific ways of
directing the breath and the inner energies of the body, which were drawn from
the broader yogic knowledge of India. A lot of ritual elements were also
incorporated, as well as magical techniques and dance practices. Probably what
was most distinctive about early period, though, was the introduction of the
yoga of union—the practices that men and women could do together in order to
transform the energies awakened by sexual union into very refined states of
consciousness, wisdom and bliss.
It
is also well known that the quest for Sex and health is almost as old as the
human race itself. This we know from the most ancient writing of the past. And
still the wonderful search goes on, for there is no quest in which man and
woman are as vitally interested as in this search for vibrant, youthful living.
It
is about how you enjoy and achieve the mastery over your body that will take
your love making to new heights.
Sexuality
is an extremely powerful, primal and irreducible aspect of human nature. One of
the contributions of the Tantric paradigm was the insight that sexual energies
were being wasted in some forms of meditative practice. There is a Tantric
teaching to the effect that without the practice of sexual union and without
integrating one’s energies at that level, it is impossible to attain
enlightenment in the present life-time.
This
takes us to the fact that sex and spirituality are not two different paths but
that one is the path to attain the other. Old Tantric practices of sacred sex
or mystic sex showed that often the orgasmic bliss was sought by the practicenar
to get a vision of the divinity. In today’s world the first concept still holds
true, there is also the evolution of the concept where proponents of Tantra and
scared sex are using the age-old system to strengthen man-woman relationships
and their equation with each other.
This
also serves another purpose. While you attain a certain spiritual knowledge,
you also create a cosmic bond with the partner who helps you attain this state.
This union then moves beyond the regular meaning of a man-woman relationship to
create a bond that is pure love. Surrender, worship and sacrifice.
In
this the whole act of making love is an intense experience where all the five
senses are simultaneously involved. It is where you directly realise the power
of your senses and feel pure bliss and a complete release from your present
world. In sacred sex, it is not just the union of two bodies. There is sexual
preparation, sexual activity and finally sexual lease. During this last phase,
the mind is in its purest form, single pointed and focussed. At this point we
transcend our body and reach that immense state of pure energy, which is the
cause of our being. Only the energy that is generated through the practice of
union with a consort could have the power to blast through the residue of
centuries of egoistic behaviour and immersion in illusion and negativity, and
to dissolve the layers of hatred and fear within the heart.
Very
few of us can really relate sex to the world of spiritual emancipation. This is
because of our conditioning from the time we understand sex- that sexuality is
something that needs to be hidden or something that needs to be frowned upon.
Rarely do we come across anybody who knows or accepts that sex is neutral, that
this can be so much a part of our spiritual experience. It is seemingly an
incongruous combination. But the truth is that scared sex exists. And no, this
is not a new fanged idea but it is something as old as our religion itself.
Rightly
they say, heaven within us resides
To
rise it out, we need but love; we act as her aides.
It
is about how you enjoy and achieve the mastery over your body that will take
your love making to new heights.
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