Live in accordance with the law of 'Nature'.......

It is said that 

“Pleasure is Medicine And LOVE has the Power to Heal”.

Indulging in Sex for reproduction or for sheer pleasure can be termed as one of the basic needs of all living beings along with Food Clothing Shelter and Sleep ! It has been a constant struggle for all aspiring people in their pursuit of spirituality to overcome this basic instinct which the mind tries to indulge! We heard about the sages like great Viswamitra विश्वामित्र too succumbing to this basic desire when meditating ......another theory says spirituality through sexuality...propagated by Gurus like Osho ! One thing is clear that one cannot ignore this basic instinct in whatever stage of life one is in and surely this cannot be judged as bad !

Our basic instincts often drive us back towards history when we were nomads living in jungles. Leading a natural life like Adam and Eve. During evolution, we made societies where these instincts were chained or put to shackles which were unnatural and forced. The constant conflict between natural and unnatural draws us back and forth resulting in sometimes a so-called civilized behaviour sometimes a jungle behaviour. Entire world is in under the spell of this kind of a regular conflict manifesting clear-cut divisions. There are people who want to celebrate primitive urges as 'valentine day' protagonists and 'Ram Sena राम सैना ' vandalizing their plans. Khajuraho खजुराओ or a Konark कोणार्क is no exception.

Sex is the nature's gifted mechanism for self-recreation and life creation. Mouth is the nature's gifted mechanism to eat and drink,..... it is never bad but always good for one's existence. All the natural mechanisms are good if used sensibly, selectively, timely, under pressure of need, at right place and at right time and right space. Contrarily not using the natural mechanisms of living body or misusing or abusing ... are disastrous.

Nowhere has it been said that sexual act is a sin. The thing is that sexual act must be coupled with moral values. Immoral sexual activities lead to degradation of character and the loss is instantaneous. One should practice abstinence till possible and if the impulse has come then relieve himself off the impulse. Yet one should place before him the highest ideal i.e. Bramhacharya ब्रह्मचार्य.

Use of sex is divine order,

Abuse of sex is sex addiction,

Misuse of sex is sex crime,

Disuse of sex is celibacy........!!

With Good Wishes and LOVE from Subhash.....!!