LOVE is a state of being.

LOVE is a state of being.

By Abigail Wainwright

When we are aligned with loving the self unconditionally, we will attract mirrors in our life reflecting that same love back with great intensity. People have confused emotional ego attachment with love. You could be the most beautiful person on earth; you could be the richest person on earth. You could seem to have everything in life, but if you still do not open your heart to 'self love' and accept yourself totally as the human being you are right now, you will not be able to attract love in another human form anymore than the degree in which your heart is open and connected to love. When you honour, accept and love yourself completely, you will attract other people who will also honour, accept and love you as you are now because we tend to attract and treat other people in the same way we feel about ourselves.

All relationships are a mirror to self. A relationship can only reflect back to you how you feel about yourself. Even if someone was giving you 100% of their love; if your heart is closed off then you will only see the reflection of the lack you feel within; you won't be able to give back 100% love if your heart cannot feel love within. Our relationships are there to teach us about unconditional love as a state of being, beyond these attachments. Love is not an attachment and cannot be given or taken away by something 'outside' of you! Love is the most constant universal life force energy we have; love is unconditional and beyond all form. Once you feel unconditional love within, you will know true freedom and you will become a radiating magnet to love.