How love is borne:

How love is borne: - An Urdu couplet supports this view: -

होता है राजे इश्क -ओ-मोहब्बत इन्ही से पस । 

आँखें जुबान हैं पर बेजुबाँ नहीं ॥ 

“(The secrets of desire and love are revealed by the eyes, Eyes have tongue, but they are not without speech”).

I LOVE it. Love is necessary to live with to heal:- It is a said in Ramayana that when monkey force were injured in the war with the RAVANA , with the touch of Sri Rama to injured monkeys pain vanished and soon healed up. It was not a miracle but a type of psychological impression. This may be the controversial subject, but there is no doubt that the love and affection give a positive effect on our health. Opposite to that hate, anger and jealousy etc. will have adverse effect on our health.

“No love is love that subjugates the lover. /no love is love that draws a woman to a man only to breed / more women and men and thus perpetuate their bondage to the flesh”, Those who can see neither before nor after believe this segment of eternity to be itself eternity. They cling to the delusion of duality… not knowing that the rule of life is unity.

An American Psychologist Dr. Dean Ornish writes in his Book”Love and Survival” with a research subject of Scientific Basis for Healing Power of Intimacy, that if love and affection expressed to the patient he cures soon. Love and affection will give a positive response to our body in psychological and physical manner. These immune system will strengthen Blood circulation and thereby longitivity. The immune systems created by Love and affection have co-relation with physical and mental satisfaction and reduce depression.      

Mr. James Linch a psychologist writes in his book “The Broken Heart” There are adverse effects on physical and mental health due to loneliness. He also said of having good relation with your neighbor is not only the humanity, but it is necessary to keep you healthy. In fact love and health goes together.

Various scientists, researchers have proved that Love and affection have got power to reduce the depression. The people, who have more friends, will feel safe and free of tension. These people believe that at the time of need the friends are there to help them.

The psychologist believes that if you touch any person who is in depression, sadness and tension will feel relief immediately. Especially the opposite sex. The body touches, nearness, kissing, embracing, and fore play with each other will give a good effect on their physical and mental body. According Dr. Paul Pearls “Super immunity” the intercourse with opposite sex produces some chemicals Hormone, which protect them from many dangerous diseases. Same way as the mother give a love to her child, tapping its body, kissing and breast feeding some of the action which satisfy the child and also produces some of the chemical Hormone, which protect its health mentally and physically.