I wish you enough
Recently
I overheard a Father and daughter in their last moments together at the
airport. They had announced the departure.
Standing
near the security gate, they hugged and the Father said, 'I love you, and I
wish you enough.'
The
daughter replied, 'Dad, our life together has been more than enough.. Your love
is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.'
They
kissed and the daughter left. The Father walked over to the window where I was
seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to
intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say
good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'
'Yes,
I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever
good-bye?'.
'I
am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is -
the next trip back will be for my funeral,' he said.
'When
you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what
that means?'
He
began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other
generations. My parents used to say it to everyone...' He paused a moment and
looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more....
'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a
life filled with just enough good things to sustain them....' Then turning
toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.
I
wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may
appear.
I
wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I
wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I
wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear
bigger.
I
wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I
wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I
wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye..
He
then began to cry and walked away.
They
say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a
day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.
TAKE
TIME TO LIVE......
To
all my friends and loved ones, I WISH YOU ENOUGH
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