Depression....how to overcome....
Those
in the early stages of depression can easily come out of it on their own.
Our
scriptures discipline our daily routine. For example, though bathing is only to
cleanse the body, our scriptures tell us when to and when not to bathe. And
also bathing is described as a virtuous act. Similarly, though food is taken to
appease hunger, our scriptures tell us when and what type of food to be had.
Having
food and offering food to others (annadhana अन्नदान)
are considered as worship. As never seen anywhere else it is only here in our
land that scriptures have been made even for kaama कामा (Sex).
All these only go to show that our feelings/emotions need to be properly
channelized.
Depressed
people yearn to be like the experts in various fields - to be like the good
musician when they listen to a good music performance, to be like the cricketer
when they watch a cricket match and so on. This trait is also a mental weakness
and is sheer foolishness.
Mental
strength and thinking capacity increases when one reduces talking. One should
always be cheerful and pleasant. One should be in the company of good friends
and saints. Good books also make good company. One should always be positive in
thought, word and deed, as these have power.
One
should have a concrete goal in life. Adoption of a child by childless couples
is only to bring meaning into their lives. In spiritual life realization is the
goal. At the same time one should put in constant effort.
Though
festivals like Sri Ramanavami श्री
रामनवमी, Vinayaka Chathurthi विनायक चतुर्थी,
Krishna Jayanthi कृष्णा
जयन्ती (Gokulashtami गोकुलाष्टमी), Navarathri नवरात्रि, etc. are basically religious in
nature, they are also meant to overcome idleness, bring in cheerfulness and
promote social interaction. Our religious concepts have sound logic as basis.
We
should avoid the company of people who have negative attitude, who always find
fault with others and who are idle because negative qualities are very
contagious.
If
we follow the mantra मंत्र
'ADJUST,
ADAPT AND ACCOMMODATE'
the world would be a better place to live in
Mind
is both wonderful and dangerous. Reading the essay on 'DEPRESSION' would
probably have made many people believe they, too, fit into the description of
many symptoms of depression. It is not so. As long as the mind exists, such
imaginations and thoughts are unavoidable. Only when such imaginations cross
the threshold can we term it, 'DEPRESSION'.
To
put it in a nutshell,
1. One should have a definite purpose in
life
2. One should not waste a single moment
3. One should talk less
4. One should cultivate good thoughts and
be in good company
5. One should have a practical approach
towards life, and
6. One should believe in God
Observing
these simple guidelines will enable us to lead a healthy life interpreting
events based on scriptures...to be continued the second part...
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