MANU BHAGAWAN has said
“There
are ten values in life that characterize
Dharma
and these should be followed by everyone.” These ten values are:
Dhirya
(fortitude or forbearance),
Ksama
(forgiveness or the ability to endure cheerful),
dama
( control over our organ of action ),
Asteya
(non-stealing ),
Suddhta
(purity),
Indriya
Nigraha (Mastery over the organs of perception),
Dhrit
(using the faculty of discrimination),
Vidya
(knowledge),
Satya
(truthfulness), and
Akrodha
(absence of anger).
These
values are necessary for all people at all times and that’s why they are called
Santana, eternal and universal.
Fortitude:
Dhrit means the capacity to hold onto something. The 18th chapter of
the Bhagawad Gita, enumerator’s these kinds of sattvic. Tamasic dhrit is
holding onto thing such as sleep, food and wrong notions. Rajasic Dhrit is
about holding onto money, power and pleasure. Sattvic Dhrit is the ability to
raise above all obstacles, difficulties and doubts while pursuing a noble goal
in life. A person with such determination, whether physically or mentally
tired, will remind himself to hold onto his goal.
Forgiveness:
Ksama is forgiveness. The highest form of forgiveness is when the feeling of
being offended does not even arise in the first place. Once a lady was offended
by something her husband had done. He begged forgiveness and though she forgave
him, she kept reminding him, exasperated, the man finally asked, if you have
forgiven me, why do you keep reminding me of it?” his wife replied, “I just do
not want you to forget that I forgave you!” Is this an example of real
forgiveness? No, because the greatest form of Ksama is never to have felt any
initial offence, insult or hurt,
Control
of the sense organs: Dama means control over our organs of action. If we get
angry with someone and immediately want to strike out at him, this is not dama.
If we are unable to control the feeling of anger rising in the mind, but are
able to control its outward expression. It shows some degree of dama.
Non-
stealing: Asteya means not taking another’s possessions. What right do you have
to their wealth, prosperity or achievement? A person has to work hard to
deprive some one of their wealth, prosperity or achievement? A person has to
work hard earn his belongings. If we also want to have those objects, we must
work hard to get them. Asteya means that even the thought of taking someone
else’s wealth should not arise in the mind!
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