World will be of NO MAN.-1

World will be of NO MAN.-1

Woman’s primary need is “Security”, secondary is “Respect”, they often misinterpret meaning of word security. According to them money is sign of security; they often push back their emotional need. As we all know money attracts women, in fact we say “Woman run after money”, but the question is why they do so?

Woman has the desire/need to maintain themselves, they are look conscious, status conscious, because their outlook appeal men towards them, which fulfilled their basic psychological need, and this materialistic cycle needs money, here raise need of money for woman; secondly they are financially dependent on their partner (most of women were earlier even today), because nature has created them like this “to rely on” , that makes money basic source of security, those who understand themselves & their real urge they doesn’t chase it, we had come across such examples. There are women who choose to live with average earning man whom they love & they live happily, for them emotional needs to be fulfilled first, and there are women who are not happy being a wife of billionaire, what makes them to chase someone else, if money is everything for woman.

When women are beautiful, then they have queued of men chasing them, and if they are not??

Women becomes symbol or other name of “beauty”, what is their beauty

Long hairs

Fair complexion

Sharp features

Expressive eyes

Sweet voice

Good outline

How she presents/behaves (new emerge)

Is that all about woman, why they have been rated on parameter of their looks, think on this, if today I am beautiful what is my contribution, and if not then, what is my fault, I have not created myself, what kind of complexion, eyes, physics I’ll be having will totally depend on the combination of multiple genes and amount of mutation takes place if so, and that becomes our value stage for world, and world makes us to face them on their parameters.

Chap on matrimony sites, first requirement for ideal partner, she should be good looking, is only good looking girls has right of marriage, if it so? Then god is doing mistake by creating average looking gals.

She should be of good character, what are the measures to measure her character and why they should do?

When they have been differentiating on some materialistic parameters then they become materialistic, and then phrase “Women run after the money” exists.

When we talk about woman we can’t leave discussing role of men in her life, she hold man within her "WO"MAN", man is an integral part of woman’s life even her identities are dependable on them, first; father’s name is required later husband’s name. Man is an undetectable part of her life whether they become bitter half or better half it varies from story to other.

Woman and man’s relationship has various dynamics.

Men are known to run after “BEAUTY”, for them women are more like a project (desire)-- learn (know her), get into (have her), get familiar (entertain himself), and then move to next project.

Women need ample/own time to rely on any man who enters in her life, to develop trust level, to feel warmth, which lead into bond/relation, it is bit slow process in case of woman; but for man, it is opposite-- they attract very fast, rush to know her, to make relationship with her, without understanding the profile/need of her. When they don’t get desired response as per their expectations, they lose charm and move towards other, and that is the time, when woman overpass period of trust, when she want to relying on him, trusting him, by the time he is already mentally moved away from her, and the story ends before it starts.

I couldn’t understand, why man has high ego, and they live with it all the time, ego for what, being a man, but then they have to be either gender.

Three supreme powers, BRAHMA DEV, VISHNU DEV and LORD SHIVA, who are responsible for this world’s management for three different profile, their better halves has the equal supportive role in this management, and we all worship them.

BRAHMA DEV, known to write our fate, MA SARASWATI, blessed us with the power of knowledge (co line part)

VISHNU DEV, responsible for our nurture, MA LAXMI, blessed us with power of money (dependable profile)

LORD SHIVA, responsible for to put an end, MA PARWATI, play or develop roles to make this happened. (Lead each other)

Then why this world is “men oriented” world, why all the desires and command is in men’s hand, why here is not equal, supportive, constructive role for both of them. Why Indian woman has to call her hubby “Aap” and he calls her “Tum or Tu”.

When this woman is “SHIV KI SHAKTI”, why she is so helpless today? Aren’t we spoiling the nature’s balance?

THE PREGNANT DEER – such a beautiful story !

THE PREGNANT DEER – such a beautiful story !

In a forest, a pregnant deer is about to give birth. She finds a remote grass field near a strong-flowing river. This seems a safe place. Suddenly labour pains begin.

At the same moment, dark clouds gather around above & lightning starts a forest fire. She looks to her left & sees a hunter with his bow extended pointing at her. To her right, she spots a hungry lion approaching her.

What can the pregnant deer do? She is in labour!

What will happen?

Will the deer survive?

Will she give birth to a fawn?

Will the fawn survive?

Or will everything be burnt by the forest fire?

Will she perish to the hunters’ arrow?

Will she die a horrible death at the hands of the hungry lion approaching her?

She is constrained by the fire on the one side & the flowing river on the other & boxed in by her natural predators.

What does she do? She focuses on giving birth to a new life.

The sequence of events that follows are:

- Lightning strikes & blinds the hunter.

- He releases the arrow which zips past the deer & strikes the hungry lion.

- It starts to rain heavily, & the forest fire is slowly doused by the rain.

- The deer gives birth to a healthy fawn.

In our life too, there are moments of choice when we are confronted on all sides with negative thoughts and possibilities.

Some thoughts are so powerful that they overcome us & overwhelm us.

Maybe we can learn from the deer. The priority of the deer, in that given moment, was simply to give birth to a baby.

The rest was not in her hands & any action or reaction that changed her focus would have likely resulted in death or disaster.

Ask yourself, Where is your focus? Where is your faith and hope?

In the midst of any storm, do keep faith on the Creator always. He will never ever disappoint you. NEVER.

Remember, He neither slumbers nor sleeps…

One of the best I have read….

Friendship:

Friendship:

A friend of mine once asked me to write something on friendship. Well, Friendship is all about love and understanding. It has nothing to do with who we are and what we possess. It is all about feelings. The more we feel for someone the stronger is the bond. It is an ongoing thing just like the flow of a river. It never stops. As it flows it assimilates all good and bad elements along with it but the current of the river never stops. Some of us try to be possessive in this relationship but to be honest can anybody ever contain a flowing river in ones hands? We should be giving by nature to make this relationship grow further. The more we give the more we get back even without asking. We often confuse friendship between a man and a woman with a physical relationship and most of us end up having expectations from those we are friends with. If the expectations are not fulfilled it gives rise to frustration and we start abusing those whom we claim to love and that leads to the end of it. So we should learn to love and appreciate others with an open heart and mind.

I would be honest to accept the fact that I have received invaluable gifts from my friends in the form of love and appreciation which have kept me going even in my worst moments. Words of love may not have a price and cost you nothing but in fact they are priceless. The more we love and share with others, the more fulfilled we feel. There is no end to loving others. We all come from one single entity and are basically the same no matter what colour, religion, country or culture we belong to. It’s a long journey for us before we go and get merged in the same. We are like a million rivulets travelling our distance from different directions and finally getting merged in the vast sea which encompasses and engulfs all of us in its embrace. That is the reason we all yearn for those everlasting feelings of belonging, trust, affection and love from those we meet during this journey. Let us keep giving and spreading the essence of love all around us to make life seem easier and worth living.

What goes around comes around Amazing Story

What goes around comes around

Amazing Story

This is a true story that had happened in 1892 at Stanford University. It’s moral is still relevant to-day.

A young, 18 year old student was struggling to pay his fees. He was an orphan, and not knowing where to turn for money, he came up with a bright idea. A friend and he decided to host a musical concert on campus to raise money for their education.

They reached out to the great pianist Iignacy J. Paderewski. His manager demanded a guaranteed fee of $ 2,000 for the piano recital. A deal was struck. And the boys began to work to make the concert a success.

The big day arrived. Paderewski performed at Stanford. But unfortunately, they had not managed to cell enough tickets. The total collection was $ 1,600. Disappointed, they went to Paderewski and explained their plight. They gave him the entire $ 1,600, plus a cheque for the balance of $ 400. They promised to honour the cheque soonest possible.

“No” said Paderewski. “This is not acceptable” He tore up the Cheque, returned the $1,600 and told the boys “Here’s the $1,600. Please deduct whatever expenses you have incurred. Keep the money you need for your fees. And just give me whatever is left” The boys were surprised, and thanked him profusely.

It was a small act of kindness. But it clearly marked out Paderewski as a great human being. Why should he help two people he did not even know? We all come across situations like these in our lives. And most of us only think “If I help them, what would happen to me?”

The truly great people think, “If I don’t help them, what will happen to them?” They don’t do it expecting something in return. They do it because they feel it’s the right thing to do.

Paderewski later went on to become the Prime Minister of Poland. He was a great leader, but unfortunately when the World War began, Poland was ravaged. There were over 1.5 million people starving in his country, and no money to feed them.

Paderewski did not know where to turn for help. He reached out to the US Food and Relief Administration for help.

The Head was a man called Herbert Hoover- who later went on to become the US President. Hoover agreed to help and quickly shipped tons of food grains to feed the starving Polish people. A calamity was averted.

Paderewski was relieved. He decided to go across to meet Hoover and personally thank him. When Paderewski began to thank Hoover for his noble gesture, Hoover quickly interjected and said, “You shouldn’t be thanking me, Mr. Prime Minister. You may not remember several years ago, you helped two young students go through college in the US. I was one of them.”

The World is wonderful place. What goes around usually comes around.

7 PRINCIPLES OF EAGLES

7 PRINCIPLES OF EAGLES

PRINCIPLE 1

Eagles fly alone at high altitude and not with sparrows or other small birds. No other bird can get to the height of the eagle. Stay away from sparrows and ravens.

Eagles fly with Eagles

PRINCIPLE 2

Eagles have strong vision. They have the ability to focus on something up to five kilometers away. When an eagle sites his prey, he narrows his focus on it and set out to get it. No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it.

Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacle and you will succeed.

PRINCIPLE 3

Eagles do not eat dead things. They feed only on fresh prey. Vultures eat dead animals, but eagles will not.

Be careful with what you feed your eyes and ears with, especially in movies and on TV. Steer clear of outdated and old information. Always do your research well.

PRINCIPLE 4

Eagles love the storm. When clouds gather, the eagles get excited. The eagle uses the storm’s wind to lift it higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagles uses the raging storm to lift him above the clouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to glide and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the leaves and branches of the trees.

We can use the storms of life to rise to greater heights. Achievers relish challenges and use them profitably.

PRINCIPLE 5

The Eagle tests before it trusts. When a female eagle meets a male and they want to mate, she flies down to earth with the male pursuing her and she picks a twig. She flies back into the air with the male pursuing her.

Once she has reached a height high enough for her, she lets the twig fall to the ground and watches it as it falls. The male chases after the twig. The faster it falls, the faster he chases it. He has to catch it before it falls to the ground. He then brings it back to the female eagle.

The female eagle grabs the twig and flies to a higher altitude and then drops the twig for the male to chase. This goes on for hours, with the height increasing until the female eagle is assured that the male eagle has mastered the art of catching the twig which shows commitment. Then and only then, will she allow him to mate with her.

Whether in private life or in business, one should test commitment of people intended for partnership.

PRINCIPLE 6

  

When ready to lay eggs, the female and male eagle identify a place very high on a cliff where no predators can reach. The male flies to earth and picks thorns and lays them on the crevice of the cliff, then flies to earth again to collect twigs which he lays in the intended nest. He flies back to earth and picks thorns laying them on top of the twigs. He flies back to earth and picks soft grass to cover the thorns. When this first layering is complete the male eagle runs back to earth and picks more thorns, lays them on the nest; runs back to get grass it on top of the thorns, then plucks his feathers to complete the nest. The thorns on the outside of the nest protect it from possible intruders. Both male and female eagles participate in raising the eagle family. She lays the eggs and protects them; he builds the nest and hunts. During the time of training the young ones to fly, the mother eagle throws the eaglets out of the nest. Because they are scared, they jump into the nest again.

  

Next, she throws them out and then takes off the soft layers of the nest, leaving the thorns bare When the scared eaglets again jump into the nest, they are pricked by thorns. Shrieking and bleeding they jump out again this time wondering why the mother and father who love them so much are torturing them. Next, mother eagle pushes them off the cliff into the air. As they shriek in fear, father eagle flies out and catches them up on his back before they fall and brings them back to the cliff. This goes on for some time until they start flapping their wings. They get excited at this new found knowledge that they can fly.

  

The preparation of the nest teaches us to prepare for changes; the preparation for the family teaches us that active participation of both partners leads to success; the being pricked by the thorns tells us that sometimes being too comfortable where we are may result into our not experiencing life, not progressing and not learning at all. The thorns of life come to teach us that we need to grow, get out of the nest and live on. We may not know it but the seemingly comfortable and safe haven may have thorns.

  

The people who love us do not let us languish in sloth but push us hard to grow and prosper. Even in their seemingly bad actions they have good intentions for us.

PRINCIPLE 7

When an Eagle grows old, his feathers become weak and cannot take him as fast as he should. When he feels weak and about to die, he retires to a place far away in the rocks. While there, he plucks out every feather on his body until he is completely bare. He stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers, then he can come out.

  

We occasionally need to shed off old habits & items that burden us without adding to our lives. 

The Hidden Source of Vital - Spiritual Energy -1 (Kama काम)

The Hidden Source of Vital - Spiritual Energy -1 (Kama काम)

 

Gayatri गायत्री – the Eternal Supreme Power of God is revered as the origin of the infinite gamut of spiritual, conscious, unconscious and super-conscious faculties, cosmic energy and material existence. The cosmic power of Gayatri गायत्री used for the creation and perceivable manifestation of the universe is named as Savitri सावित्री. The higher-level sadhanas साधना of Gayatri गायत्री and Savitri सावित्री include the endeavors of awakening and activation of Kundalini कुंडलिनी and the unfolding and sublime transmutation of the Pancha kosas पंच कोष. Before going into this deeper science, we may attempt understanding its basic elements. Kama काम – the subtle source of sex-element, zealous vitality, sublime creativity, joy and emotional exaltation, is the seed of manifestation of Kundalini कुंडलिनी – the hidden energy of cosmic grandeur. The sagacious, enlightened personalities are aware of this precious source and therefore use it cautiously for creative purposes. We too should know the importance and deeper depths of the spiritual science of kama काम and proceed along the path of sadhanas साधना as per our present mental makeup.

 

The physical science regards atom as the basic unit of matter. As per the hypotheses prevalent until half a century ago, the origin and properties of matter and hence all its reactions and energy-variations were attributed to specific arrangements, distributions and motions of the subatomic particles in the nuclei of its atoms. Further research had discovered that the atom or subatomic particles are not the most basic entities, rather, these are consequences. After the theories of (quantum) energy waves etc, it is now believed that the root cause of the manifestation of Nature is some kind of cosmic vibration that could be regarded as generating the physical as well as conscious energy waves; the sparks of which motivate the motion of subatomic and subtler particles and give rise to the physical existence of the universe and control its expansion and ultimate destruction.

 

The science of spirituality begins at much deeper levels. It affirms the origin of Nature and cosmic expansion through the evolutionary impulse generated by the commingling of prakrati प्रकृति and purusha पुरुष. These (prakrati प्रकृति and purusha पुरुष) are also referred as prana प्राण, sakti शक्ति and Siva शिवा, or Agni अग्नि and soma सोम in the Vedic वैदिक literature. We may think of these as sublime cosmic power currents of mutually complementary nature. As the flow of electricity is not possible without both the positive and negative currents, no energy or motion could be realized in Nature without the vibrating linkage of prakrati प्रकृति and purusha पुरुष.

 

The Sankhya संख्या school of Vedic वैदिक Philosophy describes that the cosmic impulse induced by the vibrating linkage – consistent cycle of mutual commingling and separation, originate the evolving existence of the para परा and apara अपार forms of Nature. We get the first experience of this effect in the motion of (sub) atomic particles. A clock starts and continues operating with the harmonic motion of its pendulum. Similarly, the existence and unlimited activities of Nature commence and continue with the vibrating linkage of prakrati प्रकृति and purusha पुरुष.

 

In order to explain and illustrate the deeper science and philosophy of this subliminal process, the purusha पुरुष (Brahma) and prakrati प्रकृति are rhetorically described in the scriptures as representing the eternal man and woman. The trinity Gods: Brahma ब्रह्मा, Vishnu विष्णु and Shiva शिवा - symbolize the powers of eternal creation, maintenance and evolution. The Goddesses referred as their respective consorts are Savitri सावित्री /Sarswati सरस्वती, Lakshmi लक्ष्मी and Shakti शक्ति /Parvati पार्वती. Hidden behind this rhetoric description of divine couples is the fact that the eternal Being (purusha पुरुष) is incomplete without prakrati प्रकृति. No creation, no life and no growth would be possible without the conjunction of the two. There would be nothing except the absolute void. From the anthropological viewpoint, the conjugation of the mutually supplementary powers of man (male) and woman (female) is the root cause of all the gross existence of the world. The confluence or coupling of the two naturally complementary streams of the sex-element gives birth to new life. This reaction is like generation of spark from friction, from impulsive cycle of conjugation and separation.

 

The vibrating linkage in the sublime domains of Nature is also reflected in every expression of life, every process of the living body. For example, the respiratory cycle, the consecutive compression and expansion of the muscles, the beating of the heart, the pulsating flow of blood, the cyclic growth and division of the cells, the rhythmic cascade of molecular interactions etc…. Any disruption in this system invites the terror of death. This is true not only for the gross body, but also in every expression of Nature. Like the high and low tides of the sea, every activity in the universe is based on the cosmic impulse of the vibrating linkage – cyclic conjunction and disjunction of what is termed in the science of spirituality as prakrati प्रकृति and purusha पुरुष or prana प्राण.

 

Human life entirely depends upon this eternal cosmic process. What is transacted by the prakrati प्रकृति and purusha पुरुष in the subliminal realms of cosmic creation is supposed to be performed by man and woman together in the gross domains of life on this earth. The alliance of the two is therefore essential on the social fronts. Apart from the exceptional cases of individuals living singly because of some unavoidable compulsion or because of some ascetic ideals or noble aims, the life-partnership (as married couples in general) or company of man and woman is the most natural, common and favorable mode of life in the human society. No one would object to accept that the natural growth and happiness of life is sustained on the association of man and woman.

 

It should be noted that the intimate companionship of man and woman is required not only for reproduction or carnal pleasure. The joy of sexual linkage and desire of having offspring may trigger such relationships in a couple. However, this is not all. In fact, the intimate association between the two enables creative channelization of kama काम in both and thus helps arousal of their otherwise dormant consciousness; this soothing exaltation is required in every moment of life. The attachment of a child with his mother and eagerness of being in her lap or proximity are also indicative of this natural requirement

Aham Ego Ahamkara Sankhya ahamkar

Aham Ego Ahamkara Sankhya ahamkar

 

Aham: is the root cause of this Ephemeral World! No Ego ... One would Emancipate and gain Self Realization, free from the bondage of Life and Death forever.

 

One does Karma ... An inherent force drives one to action! You desire results. What if you were told fruits are not for you to reap! Going on performing your Karma never ever thinking of the results ... How odd it seems! Dissolve your Ego, the basic lesson of Gita the Song Supreme ... Words of wisdom conveyed through Lord Krishna to Humanity about 3500 years ago.

 

Keep doing your Karma at its best, no harm shall be fall you. You may not desire God-Realization but the Cosmic Teachings holds true for one and all even today, irrespective of your Religion, caste, creed, your Country or your place of living.

 

Aham (Ego) within youngsters provokes them to be disobedient. Happily married lives get shattered by the clash of Ego of the so-called grown-ups.

 

All wars have been the result of ego dominating the minds of the Kings, Presidents and the prime minister's of various countries, who failed to come to an agreement on the table front ... Knowing fully well that with every fight follows a devastating trail of destruction! 

 

Not worrying of the hardships to the public the burden of war is often thrust upon those who have elected the so-called administrators of the Country.

 

Many wars in the past have been stopped in the nick of time by mediators who were no less than Saints, people having straight and seasoned thinking and wishing welfare of one and all.

 

What use thy Ego, which submerges you in the ocean of deprivation, a journey of no return? Dominated by the I of God, absorbed in your duty towards God all the time, Life is at its best when lived in perfect equipoise. More here- Does God answer prayer

 

Yes, prayers work for me every time as I understand the meaning and gist of all prayers in totality.

 

Before praying we need to understand the meaning of the word Prayer. What does praying mean in every Religion... are Prayers different for different Religions. Is that for one a Prayer has one meaning and different for the other?

 

Praying to God, the Almighty Creator carries equal meaning for all. God never differentiates! In praying we ask of God for something. Even if we do not seek material benefits for self we may ask for the welfare of others. We may not ask God something for us but for the benefit of others. Still, it is necessary that our Prayers get answered in order to help one.

 

No one knows where God lives. None has ever seen him. Even the representative of Hindu Dharma (Shakracharya) representative of Christianity/Jesus Christ the reverend John Pope Paul can also not vouch having seen God at any stage of life.

 

Nor can any head of the Muth of Hindu sect Shri 1008 such and such,  bishop or father or a priest! God is always hidden from Mankind... he cannot be seen but always felt! He exists everywhere. In the eyes of God all are equal... he never differentiates between a king and a commoner.

 

How it is that one is a king and the other a labourer? It is only our thinking which makes one a king or a labourer. And while saying our Prayers it is only our thinking that affects the results of our Prayers. If we merely wish anything most likely our Prayers shall remain unanswered.

 

We need to perform our Karma (the sum total of all deeds performed by us) in daily life in a way that our wishes get fulfilled. Only when we perform the right Karma and also pray to God in right earnestness... they get answered!