Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Sexual philosophy is a Controversial


Sexual philosophy is a Controversial
 
Truly we live in a thrilling age. Everyday new discoveries are being made, so that we may live without pain and unnecessary suffering. We are continuously finding new ways of conquering the dread diseases that have so long held the whole human race in bondage.
 
It is also well known that the quest for Sex and health is almost as old as the human race itself. This we know from the most ancient writing of the past. And still the wonderful search goes on, for there is no quest in which man and woman are as vitally interested as in this search for vibrant, youthful living.
 
It is about how you enjoy and achieve the mastery over your body that will take your love making to new heights. 
 
Sexual enjoyment philosophy is quite controversial in this regard. Yet it has been proven repeatedly by many sex therapists and researchers. The philosophy is this by learning to focus on your own sensations and enjoyments; you will actually become more sensitive to your partner’s feeling and needs. Discovering what you enjoy can build your confidence, make it easier to ask for what you want, and bring a new sense of freedom in bed. 
 
Many other sexual advice books emphasize the need to please your partner at the expense of pleasing yourself. Credentialed therapists and self styled experts alike may peddle this approach. I think it’s harmful. I have seen it led to performance anxiety. I have seen it alienate lovers who are simply trying to get closer.
 
Total Sex knowledge to bring complete enlightenment to everyone, simply because it is the essence of our sacred Shashtras शास्त्र, Puranas पुराण, Vedas वेद, epics and our Experience.
 
And as these secrets of nature are unrivalled before our eyes, we come to understand ourselves more fully and appreciate the benefits of living in harmony with the laws of nature. These are the laws that guide the sun and the stars, and cause the plants to grow and the flowers to bloom. This is the power we see at work within the human mind and the body, the power of the life itself. Such a study not only helps us to closer to the great mind that rules the mighty Universe all around us.
 
Let me tell you what else doesn’t work. I do not believe in try “this position” or try “this technique,” cookbook approach to sex.  First of all one should have knowledge the terminology and the related subject to the sex, the things are happening around you, and the new development in the field of sex.

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

A Butterfly lesson


A Butterfly Lesson

 

One day a small opening appeared on the cocoon; a man sat and watched for the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole.

 

Then, it seems to stop making any progress.

 

It appeared as if it has gotten as far as it could and it could not go any further.

 

So the man decided to help the butterfly; he took a pair of scissors and opened the cocoon,

 

The butterfly then emerged easily.

 

But, it had a withered body; it was tiny and shriveled wings.

 

The Man continued to watch because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would open, enlarge and expand, to be able to support the butterfly’s body, and become firm.

 

Neither happened! In fact the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a withered body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.

 

What the man, in his kindness and his goodwill did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening, were God’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings, so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

 

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life.

 

If God allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as we could have been. Never been able to fly.

Sunday, January 3, 2016

Are you a slave of your Destiny


Are you a slave of your Destiny

(How to take control of Destiny)

 

Destiny: Do you as a Human Being feel your destiny is controlled by Cosmic hands? What you shall get in future shall not be of your making but cause of a supernatural happening else where!!

 

No doubt sometimes you get results of your Karma कर्म immediately and feel the strings of your future are in your hands but, when you watch people with pious background getting tormented and put to miserable ends ... you think twice! Who is the Controller of the rewards and what his standards of his judgment are!!! Does he always judge people with an unbiased attitude or are there favours and displeasure’s to be shown. You wonder and get lost in the perennial Query disturbing all ... never able to get a reasonable answer from within. Will the correct answer evade you for ever? What is the measure of intelligence ... When shall the truth dawn upon you!

 

Some people say ... All answers can be found in Bhagavad Gita भागवद गीता and the Upanishads उपनिषद्! How shall I understand the Bhagavad Gita भागवद गीता! Who shall explain it to me in a dialect I can understand! It seems to be so complex that even the so called Pundits do not seem to know the correct purport of it ... What then!!!

 

SURESH is a middle aged businessman. By Grace of God he seems to have learned the hidden truth? He is always cheerful and never gets affected even by the death of any. Be there a gain or loss, he is ever so cheerful ... It seems he is a Cosmic being on a Cosmic journey and Life on Earth is but a small sojourn for him. He seems to have a grip on his destiny ... That is what he all the time feels. He says he can be very rich but to what use!

 

We came empty handed and shall return empty handed ... What use of amassing wealth by orderly or dishonest means. Whatever is necessary to live a healthy and balanced Life he is able to do that much. Rest of the time he spends contemplating on God. He says "Till the time we do not know "Brahma Vidya ब्रह्म विद्या " we feel a void in ourselves, as if we are two bodies cast in one but once you learn of the cosmic truth, your ‘I’ is gone and you are but pure consciousness".

 

According to him, every soul takes a body on Earth to continue its Cosmic journey and in that it prompts the body to do what is just and right (through dreams only!). Only then it shall enhance itself to the higher planes of mental achievement for, lies the "Brahm Vidya ब्रह्म विद्या " on the highest plane of Mind power. By control of Mind power & acquiring Brahma Vidya ब्रह्म विद्या says SURESH"Destiny is 100% under his control".

 

Why should we all follow the path taken by SURESH? If SURESH feels so it may be his personal case. The same may not be applicable to others!! He may be also wrong somewhere. Let us seriously try to understand what is destiny?

 

Let us measure all the achievements of a Human Being on a -100 - 0 - +100 scale. On -100 resides Satan and +100 denotes the Power of God. 0 is the level above which is born a Human Being and below which one gets the body of an insect, tree or an animal.

 

You are born in a family of a Brahmin ब्राह्मण priest on a starting scale of +42! Presume you get -4 points for committing a murder. Now, if you fall in bad company & become a dacoit and commit 11 murders in this Life ... What you expect to get but animal form at -2 in your next manifestation!! If you committed 2 murders and simultaneously earned +2 by your pious deeds then also you may be born in a lower caste family at -36 (considering that +40 is the lowest plane to be born a Brahmin ब्राह्मण).


Does this mean that one born in a lower caste family can not attain the status of godhood by realizing self in that very Life? It is not impossible but may be extremely difficult to attain Brahma Vidya
ब्रह्म विद्या in a single Life span as the amount of prayaschita (atonement required to wash out accumulated sins) required may be so huge that one may buckle under the pressure.

 

Is it difficult for an average Human Being to emulate SURESH! What are the factors directly affecting you in controlling your destiny!!


Step 1: Stop the inflow of negative thoughts

 

If you intake what is wrong.. How can the results be positive! It can best be explained in computer language "Garbage in, Garbage out" ... What you invoke all the time forms the basis for what your future is going to be!! Invoke positive thoughts all the time ... thoughts which wish welfare of one and all and without an exception. No foes ... all friends ... may be only in thought initially, but your future is going to be bright for you have rightly earned it. Your enemies may not think friendly of you but it does not matter! Thinking good of all ... all the time can never bring to you a future full of harm for you (all our actions are preceded by thoughts ... Good actions follow good thoughts).

 

God’s system is justly ordered. All Stars Galaxies and Universe would collapse the moment there is chaos in the Cosmos. In a justly ordered system all is serene and calm ... Peace reigns supreme. If you invoke good and positive thoughts all the time and have chosen a define aim of Life then the positive forces of nature shall help and nurture you to achieve your aim.


Step 2: Have a predetermined chief aim of Life

 

Without an aim in Life, your Life is like a rudderless boat which left to the mercy of forces of nature may either comes ashore or get Sunk in the process. Life shall fade away if it has no concentrated efforts to make ... Stagnation of thoughts breeds’ inefficiency.

 

Even though you may be pure in thoughts but you live a predestined Life ... A Life which you inherited owing to the Karmas कर्म of your previous births ... In this Life you can take control of Life by directing all your energies towards a single aim. If your aim in Life is earning money and living a comfortable Life there is nothing bad about it but, destiny has in store for you two things

 

(1) Take control of destiny and live this physical manifested Life comfortably else

(2) Invoke all the mighty powers of God and learn of "Brahma Jnana ब्रह्मज्ञान " and free yourself of the cycle of birth and death for ever.

 

In stage one you may become a Tata, Birla or a Ford, a true Karma Yogi कर्म योगी like Vivekananda विवेकानंद and in stage 2, you shall attain the status of a Jesus Christ, Gautama Buddha गौतम बुद्ध or Mahavira महावीर. Choice is yours. Both groups of people had destiny under their control but with different aims!!!


Step 3: Forgive others for ... It is not in their control to Forgive you

 

If you want to take control of thoughts entering your brain. You shall have to learn to Forgive others. Numerous thoughts fly past your brain every second. You invoke only those which appeal to you. You are having a heated argument with someone. You shall notice ... Thoughts of hatred and thoughts of goodwill getting transmitted to you. If you are in the habit of blaming others then by invoking thoughts of hatred you shall start abusing the person opposite you. If you are a person of a sound countenance, you shall invoke thoughts of a peaceful nature and tend to Forgive the other ... Why should you retaliate in the manner your opponent is behaving! If you want to achieve a certain aim in Life ... Your forgiving him shall only please God for in serving his pupils, you serve him.


Step 4: Atonement for all negative Karma’s
कर्म accumulated in past lives!

 

What of the past Karma’s कर्म which stop you from achieving your aim? In your past Life you may have been the cause of injury to so many Atmans आत्मा’ (Souls) and unless you atone for the sins committed in the past, you shall never be Forgiven. Praying alone to God ... will it serve the purpose? No, You have to be individually pardoned by all afflicted Atmans/Soul आत्मा’. How do you know which Atman’s’ आत्मा were they!

 

You do not come onto Earth on your own. You are born through your parents. You may have brothers and sisters ... Many more acquaintances as you proceed ahead in Life. Still not clear! You do not come in touch with strangers in your Life but only that Atman’s with whom you have some bondage from the past lives. One by one ask these Atman’s (in physical manifest form) to Forgive you for any sin committed in this or earlier lives and that too knowingly or unknowingly. The Atman within your body shall give a deep shiver as and when the negative affects of an Atman leaves you ... For your good and for never to affect you again.


Summary:

 

1. You have learnt the art of invoking only positive thoughts all the time.

2. You have a definite chief aim in Life to follow all the time.

3. You learn to Forgive people even if deliberate mischief or attempt has been made to anger or antagonize you.

4. You have learnt to negate all bad influences of this or earlier lives.


Compare the above to a plot of land consisting of jungle weeds growing haphazardly. You are bold enough to clear the field of all weeds. You are able to plough it afresh and after putting in manure and water etc. new seeds are sown in. What would be the outcome! A field full of desired plants with seedlings!! Is it not the bloom of your destiny!!!

 

Do not be hasty in your decisions. Be patient. Slowly and steadily you shall reap the reward of what you sow. Tatas, Birlas and Ford were not the product of a single day’s toil of sincere effort. All spent their initial years following the above four steps before they saw the spark of success.

 

Abuse none for you ever know when you shall have to atone for the sins committed knowingly or unknowingly. God is very graceful. His doctrines and facilities are available to one and all ... Irrespective of the caste creed or status you may hold. Wherever you are, whoever you are ... Do not loose time. Start practicing today for you can earn enough merit to break the cycle of births and death let alone becoming a Tata, Birla or a Ford. Never forget ... It is only Godly thoughts which shall earn you a place in heaven

 

Astrologers can only give a glimpse of what your destiny is going to be ... Based on the balance Karma कर्म brought forward by you till that moment. His prediction of the future can be totally falsified if you are one of those whose destiny is in his own grips. Your Karma’s will change so frequently that it will come as a surprise even to you ... and you would wonder if you are the same person compared to your self of yester years. One who learns to make his own destiny has all the treasures of Cosmos within his grasp and peeping deep into the Cosmic system one can unlock those doors, behind which lies the Essence of the cosmos, the Creator himself. What value is of Earth and its treasures when you are in the company of God, the Creator?

 

You shall thus initially attempt to gather material riches and when comes the time to penetrate deep in the treasure house of wisdom shall you partake of those jewels of sacred wisdom which guide you on to the path of "Nirvana Salvation". Once atman आत्मा the soul within leaves this body it becomes pure Consciousness ... of the same Essence as the Creator himself. Not to be distinguished between the two ... You become a living Mahavira महावीर, Gautama Buddha गौतम बुद्ध or a Jesus Christ never to manifest again

Sex Energy-A Manifestation of Para Shakti परा शक्ति


Sex Energy-A Manifestation of Para Shakti परा शक्ति

 

What is this sex energy? This energy, this sex energy, is a manifestation of God. It is Brahman in dynamic expression. It is Shakti शक्ति, Para Shakti परा शक्ति We all know that this phenomenal universe is the activity of the cosmic power calls this which is illimitable, indescribable and infinite. We call this cosmic power Para Shakti परा शक्ति, Maha Shakti महा शक्ति, Maha Maya महा माया. or Prakriti प्रकृति.. Countless billions of universes come and go through the activity of this great cosmic energy. It is this cosmic energy, this Para Shakti परा शक्ति, that manifests as the incredible energy of the sun, the energy of the planets and, the incredible speed at which they whirl in their own orbits. It is this cosmic energy which manifests as the power of gravity, as the power of the sun’s radiance, as the power of all these great planets and heavenly bodies, as the power of the wind and other elements. If sometimes the wind is furious, it will even blow up houses. It is the cosmic energy which manifests as the power of fire, as the power of the volcano, as the power of floods, as the power of earthquakes, as the power of the Bhumi भूमि. (Earth) to bear mountains, rivers and seas.

 

So, earth, air, water, ether—all is nothing but the manifestations of this great power. It is the same power inside the seed that makes the seed grow into a huge tree. It is the power behind lightning and thunder. Any power that you see in this universe is the power of this great cosmic force and it is this same power that animates all living beings, trees, plants, insects, birds, bees, reptiles, fish and animals. It is the power of the lion, it is the power of the elephant and it is the power of the brilliant intellect or genius of a Faraday, a Raman or an Einstein. This self-same power abides in us and animates our entire body mechanism. It is the power that digests our food that makes our heart pump blood, that makes our lungs breathe, that makes our muscles and joints work, that makes our tongue talk and ear hear.

 

It is this very power that is also present as the sex energy in us. So, sex energy is part of the one indivisible great cosmic power present in the human individual. In its gross biological aspect, it is called the sex energy. In its subtler aspect, it is the energy of discrimination, the power of the intellect to analyze and enquire and ratiocinate. In a still subtler aspect, in its psychic aspect, it is the power of the Kundalini कुंडलिनी. And in its supreme aspect, it is nothing but Atma Shakti आत्मा शक्ति.

 

Because Brahman ब्रह्म and Shakti शक्ति. are not two. They are the static and the dynamic aspects of one and the same principle. Therefore, the sex energy is nothing but the presence of the Divine Mother in all human beings. It is something divine, it is something sacred, and its supreme function in the scheme of things of the Creator is to keep going the universal process. It is the function of reproduction which is present in all nature, in all life. Without this subtle power of duplication or reproduction, all species will become extinct. So, the utilization of the sex energy for the purpose of reproduction is actually a sacred process for cooperating with Brahma ब्रह्म, the Creator.

 

And any other aspect of the sex energy is a secondary, lesser aspect. And if this energy or power is wisely utilized in a moderate and restrained way, even after such utilization, a sufficient amount of it will be available for higher spiritual development. And if this grosses biological energy is converted through Yogabhyasa योगाभ्यास. Into a subtler form, it becomes available for deep contemplation, reflection and meditation. Manana मनन, Nididhyasana निद्धियासना. and Samadhi समाधि are enabled through the power of this conserved and converted energy. That is Brahmacharya ब्रह्मचार्य.

 

So, all practices to successfully conserve and convert the sex energy into a higher form and utilize it for a higher spiritual purpose are included in the broad meaning of the term Brahmacharya ब्रह्मचार्य. Therefore, Brahmacharya ब्रह्मचार्य is not only a single act of restraint; it is a whole way of life. It is that way of living and moving and acting which will take us towards Brahma-Jnana ब्रह्म-ज्ञान. That is Brahmacharya ब्रह्मचार्य. And therefore it involves moderation in all our activities and a wise restraint of all our senses.

 

Even our sisters of ill fame show for some time abundant love, sweet smile and honeyed words towards their customers. This they do as long as they can extract money. Can you call this love and real happiness? Just tell me frankly. There is cunningness, diplomacy, crookedness and hypocrisy here. There is no element of sacrifice in this love

 

There is happiness in the house when we have a woman. The happiness of married life cannot be described in words. It is the be-all and end-all of life.

 

God wants you to enjoy the bliss of Atman/Soul आत्मा, which can be had by renouncing all these pleasures of this world. These beautiful women and wealth are the instruments of Maya माया to trick us and entrap us into her nets for enjoyment.

 

Passion should be enjoyed at all costs. Not a single disease comes by enjoying passion. On the contrary, you will get immense power, joy and peace. There are also effective methods to enjoy passion. One should reach Atman/Soul आत्मा, which is beyond nature, by going against nature. Just as a fish swims upstream against the current in a river, so also, we will have to move against the worldly currents of evil forces.

 

Sexual pleasure is a pleasure at all time. However it is a mental delusion. It should not be attended with dangers, pain, fear, exertion and disgust. If you know technique of sex or the science of Atman/ Soul आत्मा, you can very easily control the dire malady, which is passion.

 

If you wish to remain always as a worldly man with enjoyable thoughts, basing desires, you can by all means do so. You are at perfect liberty. You can marry as many as wives and procreate as many children. Nobody can check you. But you will not find that this world cannot give you the satisfaction you want at later stage, because all objects are conditioned in time, space and causation. There are death, disease, old age, cares, worries and anxieties, fear, loss, disappointment failure, abuse, heat, cold, snake-bites, scorpion-stings, earthquakes and accidents. You cannot at all find rest of mind even for a single second.

 

When Girl or woman is young and beautiful, you should admire her curly hair, rosy cheeks, fine nose, shining skin and silvery teeth.

 

You had enough of sense and sex gratification in all your previous bodies of various Janma जन्म. Our life is meant for satisfaction of the lower appetites of sex and tongue, but human life is meant for higher purpose for enjoyment

 

Sensual pleasure is exciting. As long as a person does not possess the object of desire, so long there is enchantment. After obtaining possession of the object, he finds that he is entangled in it. The bachelor thinks of his marriage day in and day out, but enjoyment does not, and cannot, bring satisfaction to him. Far from it, it only aggravates and intensifies the desire and makes the mind more restless through passion and craving. He realizes that he is in imprisonment. This is Mayavic मायाविक jugglery. This world is full of temptations.

 

While it is true that women should be honoured, and loved- they should be obeyed or worshiped as "sex-goddesses."

 

It is only the man whose intellect is clouded by his sexual impulses that could give the name of the fair sex to that under-sized, narrow-shouldered, broad-hipped, and short-legged race; for the whole beauty of the sex is bound up with this impulse. Instead of calling them beautiful, there would be more warrant for describing women as the un-aesthetic sex.

Sexual Philosophy is a Controversial


Sexual philosophy is a Controversial
 
Truly we live in a thrilling age. Everyday new discoveries are being made, so that we may live without pain and unnecessary suffering. We are continuously finding new ways of conquering the dread diseases that have so long held the whole human race in bondage.
 
It is also well known that the quest for Sex and health is almost as old as the human race itself. This we know from the most ancient writing of the past. And still the wonderful search goes on, for there is no quest in which man and woman are as vitally interested as in this search for vibrant, youthful living.
 
It is about how you enjoy and achieve the mastery over your body that will take your love making to new heights. 
 
Sexual enjoyment philosophy is quite controversial in this regard. Yet it has been proven repeatedly by many sex therapists and researchers. The philosophy is this by learning to focus on your own sensations and enjoyments; you will actually become more sensitive to your partner’s feeling and needs. Discovering what you enjoy can build your confidence, make it easier to ask for what you want, and bring a new sense of freedom in bed. 
 
Many other sexual advice books emphasize the need to please your partner at the expense of pleasing yourself. Credentialed therapists and self styled experts alike may peddle this approach. I think it’s harmful. I have seen it led to performance anxiety. I have seen it alienate lovers who are simply trying to get closer.
 
Total Sex knowledge to bring complete enlightenment to everyone, simply because it is the essence of our sacred Shashtras शास्त्र, Puranas पुराण, Vedas वेद, epics and our Experience.
 
And as these secrets of nature are unrivalled before our eyes, we come to understand ourselves more fully and appreciate the benefits of living in harmony with the laws of nature. These are the laws that guide the sun and the stars, and cause the plants to grow and the flowers to bloom. This is the power we see at work within the human mind and the body, the power of the life itself. Such a study not only helps us to closer to the great mind that rules the mighty Universe all around us.
 
Let me tell you what else doesn’t work. I do not believe in try “this position” or try “this technique,” cookbook approach to sex.  First of all one should have knowledge the terminology and the related subject to the sex, the things are happening around you, and the new development in the field of sex.
 

The Cause of unhappiness


The cause of unhappiness

 

The cause of most of the unhappiness on the earth is that man and woman have actually forgotten how to make love. This means that only the individual man or woman have any chance of starting to correct it. There can be no mass solution. The problem is too personal and too deep. Everybody has to do it for himself or herself or it cannot be done.

 

Who am I ?

Why am I here?

What am I to do?

What is the use of this life?

We are borne. Why?

Where Did I come From ?

Where am I going ?

When I Die Where will I go?  --

 

Who am I ?- We are part of the One Existence which men call God, We are divine in our origin and divine in our innermost nature, Our body is mortal; our spirit, which is our true Self, is immortal; our soul, which is the self which thinks and feels and regards itself as 'I', may win its immortality if it becomes the servant of spirit, and not otherwise.

Saturday, January 2, 2016

School of Marriage


School of marriage

 

Are you married?

 

If Yes;

Welcome to the school called marriage,

A school where you will never graduate,

A school without a break or a free period, A school where no one is allowed to drop out, A school which you will have to attend every day of your life, A school where there is no sick leave or holidays.

 

A school founded by God:

 

1. On the foundation of love,

2. The walls are made out of trust,

3. The door made out of acceptance,

4. The windows made out of understanding

5. The furniture made out of blessings

6. The roof made out of faith

 

Before you forget, you are just a student not the principal, God is the Principal Even in times of storms, don't be unwise and run outside, remember this school is the safest place to be.

 

Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day Never forget the C-word, Communicate, communicate, communicate to your classmate and to the Principal

 

If you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate. Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate, God is not finished with him/her yet.

So take it as a challenge and work on it together.

 

Do not forget to study, study, study your Bible (the main textbook in this school), Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way. Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to. When tempted to quit find courage and continue. Some tests and exams may be tough but remember the Principal knows how much you can bear. But still it is a school better than any other, It is one of the best schools on earth; joy, peace and happiness accompany each lessons of the day.

 

Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject, after all the years of theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it. To be loved is a good thing, but to love is a greatest privilege of them all

 

Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse When tempted to raise your voice let love hold your mouth Let love overthrow pride and selfishness and let it reign in your house Do not hold back any love from him/her. Don't meet him/her halfway but go all the way

 

Love as though that's your only hope for your survival, and it is My friend, listen to the voice of wisdom as found in the main Textbook.

 

If not yet married, you can keep the knowledge for future use.

 

Cheers and keep schooling!!!